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:twobyfour: wow thanks Lexxy! 
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So I just sit back and wait. I don't think he'll do anything. I don't see this ending well at all. Sorry, but I'm losing what faith I had.... Well, its a good thing you have us then.....Sorry to burst your bubble, but you ain't special.......  We have faith and hope because we have seen firsthand this very scene play out over and over and over again...... SMB LilDoggie Verve Mimi Me we have ALL been there. We have all been through this....and are on the other side. We had all lost hope as well. There were many many days I cried and didn't think I or my marriage would survive......it did. This is all classic. And while you may not apprieciate this, one day you will find a little humor in all this....humor in that WH is not any different than any other WH on here in the past. That and how he is doing EVERYTHING we told you he would...... Keep it up.....you are doing good.... not32fun
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Lexxy, YOu crack me up.....  You have a new admirer..... Funny how these waywards think they are so "special"...... :crosseyedcrazy: not2fun
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He said they are just friends now that after the last D day they haven't done anything but talk. She makes him feel good and he has feelings for her but I've sucessfully put an end to that with what I've done. She was someone he could talk to about his stuff. But now that others know, he has others to talk to now. So I should just forget about her. They never had any future plans and he know he doesn't want to be with her.
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To tell me that their 40 mins on the boat alone was spent just talking.......really??
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Sounds to me they were just getting their stories straight for the OWH 'cause that's what she told him and he bought it!!
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LOL
Ask him if he would be willing to back up that statement with a lie-detector test. To clear his good name and assure OWH of his pure intentions.....
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hmmmmm.
A voice activated recorder stashed somewhere in his cabin might prove interesting....
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oh and here's an email from his niece:
"Hi Uncle, it's C. My mom told me to let you know what I think about all this. I've been in shock for the past few days that any of this happened. Our family is small enough as it is without something like this happening...I don't really understand why you did this...and let it go on and on. Grandma said you said there's things we don't understand about VST and why you did this but whether or not VST did anything it doesn't give anyone the right to cheat on anyone. It's not fair to VST or your DD or any of the families involved. Now everything is all messed up. I always looked up to you cuz you never did anything wrong or bad or anything to hurt anyone else so this is pretty shocking. I know you may not really care but I've lost a lot of my respect for you as my uncle. We love VST and DD and now we probably won't ever see them again, which I hate the thought of. I wish we could just go back to when I was DD's age and everyone was happy..and our family was together. Anyway I know you have other things to worry about than what I have to say, but I thought I'd let you know what's been on my mind. Hopefully you think everything over and figure things out and hopefully you don't throw all this away, because later in life you'll regret it."
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Wise words from a teenager...
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LOL
Ask him if he would be willing to back up that statement with a lie-detector test. To clear his good name and assure OWH of his pure intentions.....
hehehehehehe dang, this girl is onna roll today! This is right. They should be given an opportunity to clear their good name!! It is not fair!! Strap up the polygraph!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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He's gotten hit pretty hard today by our DD and then his niece.
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Hope it does him some good!
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oh and here's an email from his niece:
"Hi Uncle, it's C. My mom told me to let you know what I think about all this. I've been in shock for the past few days that any of this happened. Our family is small enough as it is without something like this happening...I don't really understand why you did this...and let it go on and on. Grandma said you said there's things we don't understand about VST and why you did this but whether or not VST did anything it doesn't give anyone the right to cheat on anyone. It's not fair to VST or your DD or any of the families involved. Now everything is all messed up. I always looked up to you cuz you never did anything wrong or bad or anything to hurt anyone else so this is pretty shocking. I know you may not really care but I've lost a lot of my respect for you as my uncle. We love VST and DD and now we probably won't ever see them again, which I hate the thought of. I wish we could just go back to when I was DD's age and everyone was happy..and our family was together. Anyway I know you have other things to worry about than what I have to say, but I thought I'd let you know what's been on my mind. Hopefully you think everything over and figure things out and hopefully you don't throw all this away, because later in life you'll regret it." This is GREAT STUFF. It is manna from heaven and one of the most potent FRUITS of exposure. Today so far he had to see his sleazy self through the eyes of his own beloved DD and neice. This will be a HUGE WAKE UP CALL. He would have never seen this if you had continued to hide his affair for him. God Bless you for listening to us and exposing this affair, vst. You have very probably saved your marriage and your DD will grow up knowing her momma did that for her. you stood up for her family, vst. You are a GOOD MOMMA.
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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oh and here's an email from his niece:
"Hi Uncle, it's C. My mom told me to let you know what I think about all this. God Bless her mother. Tell her we said thanks!!
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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LOL
Ask him if he would be willing to back up that statement with a lie-detector test. To clear his good name and assure OWH of his pure intentions.....
hehehehehehe dang, this girl is onna roll today! This is right. They should be given an opportunity to clear their good name!! It is not fair!! Strap up the polygraph!! awww Mel,,,,,now your just being a big Texan Meanie.......shouldn't we just "trust" what they say????.....  I knew you Texans didn't know how to play nicely..... not2fun
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OMG ya'll I'm bawling my eyes out right now! I love you guys I really do!
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VST, What are you wearing right now???? Have you taken your shower today??? Are you looking and feeling pretty??? Go scrub some toilets....that's way more productive than listening to his craziness...... ( .....actually, now that I think about it, the toilets in the Not household could use some scrubbing.....) not2fun
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One thing I did fit into our conversation is that our marriage was clueless not necessarily loveless!
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VST, What are you wearing right now???? Have you taken your shower today??? Are you looking and feeling pretty??? Go scrub some toilets....that's way more productive than listening to his craziness...... ( .....actually, now that I think about it, the toilets in the Not household could use some scrubbing.....) not2fun I'm actually showered and dressed and looking pretty good. I got ready 'cause he was coming to get DD earlier. He's gone now. I do need to clean some BR's but I'd rather go shopping!!
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I vote shopping!
One of your top priorities during this stressful time is taking care of VST! Do lots and lots of caretaking!
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