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Hey B, You have been on my mind. I haven't seen or heard too much from you lately. How are you doing??? How is your job going??? How is your son doing?? Did anything ever get resolved with him and his girlfriend???? I just wanted an update, because you are a friend and very special to me....All those times I wanted to give up, YOU cheered me on.... "Your WH seems very attached to you...."....I'll never ever forget your words and encouragement....  not2fun
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Hi! So glad you asked. I am doing just fine. Today is the first day of my retirement. If you remember, I put in an ethics complaint against my boss. And he has been taking action against me since July. In the end, I didn't get an attorney, and just retired. I have loyalty to my agency. I guess I can tell you now that I worked at the Navy Hospital Camp Pendleton.
I had the honor to work with returning casualties from Fallujah, and it was life changing for me. So I just couldn't get to the point to hire an attorney to go against the hospital.
However, I have been served with a subpoena by one of our contractors, and will be deposed in 2 weeks. This is a separate lawsuit against my boss, but for some of the same reasons.
My son is still very much hurting about his fiancee. I've been telling him that betrayal takes a long time to get over.
My ex is still contacting me, and wants to get back together. He is miserable and so is the OW. The karma bus hits hard.
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Believer you are an amazing person. I hope you know that...
BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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Believer you are an amazing person. I hope you know that... I echo that....but then so are you Miss Queen B.......  (I crack myself up......  ) Thanks for the update B....and HAPPY RETIREMENT TO YOU!!!!!!! And uh, I didn't ASK about your Ex, but I "noticed" you mentioned him......  ...... And tell your son your friends here at MB are praying for him as well......but that we know he will come through this fine, because he has such a special mommy..... hugs ladies.... not2fun
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Believer,
You are truly one of the good people. You probably have no idea how many of us you have saved. You got me through many nights where I wasn't sure I could make it.
I hope you have a great retirement.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Oh, and the ex? He knows what he lost. I actually feel sorry for him because he had the very best and threw it away.
Maybe he and OW can get back and be miserable together.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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However, I have been served with a subpoena by one of our contractors, and will be deposed in 2 weeks. This is a separate lawsuit against my boss, but for some of the same reasons.
My son is still very much hurting about his fiancee. I've been telling him that betrayal takes a long time to get over.
My ex is still contacting me, and wants to get back together. He is miserable and so is the OW. The karma bus hits hard. Yep! I missed you too. I wish you success in retirement, just don't retire here. I'm glad the boss is going to enjoy some flack. I would like to hear further developments with son. Please keep posted for my next post. It involves him and many other engaged couples. I need to address ex spouses later in the same post. Please give me time to finish my research.
But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
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