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Spartan has been reading through my thread and said that he may want to start one of his own.
I have been enouraging him to start one since I signed up here in Feb. but he didn't have any interest up until this last D-day.
What are some good rules for us to follow to make sure that his will be a positive MB experience for both of us?
I know that posting in each other's threads is discouraged.
Any other MB couples have suggestions?
As a side note, being a WW, I cannot say that I don't worry about him advised to leave me.
Last edited by MutedSparkle; 04/22/09 12:54 PM.
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Don't read his thread. If you read things you don't like and start bugging him at home for his thoughts, he will get irritated by you and may get turned off to MB. If he wants to share something with you he will.
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011
Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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>I cannot say that I don't worry about him advised to leave me.
Have you BOTH done ALL you can to save your marriage?
Cos only when that has happened and failed is a person advised to throw in the towel (or if everything is being done by one partner who is carrying the weight of the world plus on their shoulders).
If Spartan wants to come on here and feels the need to post, he is always welcome, imo.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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