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Hey Mikey!
 You've been in my prayers Dude.
 
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Hey !!1
 I have missed your support like you csn't believe!!
 
 Can't go into al the legal stuff yet, but one simple question:
 
 If you are the WW, hopeful the OM is going to chooze you, andhe doesn't, snd the BH tunes him up with broken nose and lost front teeth, isn't ther as tiny part of you thst says, hey, somebody fought for me?>
Knowing your situation, it might be a love buster. Broken nose, lost front teeth? THat's pretty serious if that's the case. 
 Me BH 49 WXW 50
 Married 1998
 DS 2002
 DD 2005
 D Day 1 7/28/08
 D Day 2 8/19/08
 
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Knowing your situation, it might be a love buster.At least a lip buster. 
 Me - 44
 DW - 39
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 DS10
 DS6
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MIKE!!!
 I am so happy to see you back!  I worried about you and hoped all was OK.  I just announced your return to GM and he says hello to you as well.
 
 Be back later to catch up on all your new info.  Hope you are OK.
 
 BW-me-56
 FWH-GreenMile-62
 Married 1982
 2 wonderful grown sons
 
 D Day #1 4/1985
 D Day #2 10/03/08
 D Days continued for a while.
 
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lol, Mike, that is a double-edged sword. On the one hand, yeah, someone fought for me. On the other hand, do I really want someone who goes out and beats the crap out of people? And welcome back? Long stay somewhere, huh? Was it worth it?   |  |  |  
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Mike,
 Buy the poor guy some apples and ears of corn to show you don't have any ill feelings.
 
 I don't think Mike was drunk just busting on how OM sounds now.
 
 OM will have a tougher time picking up women now.
 
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I don't think Mike was drunk just busting on how OM sounds now.
 OM will have a tougher time picking up women now.
 
 
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Mike,
 Buy the poor guy some apples and ears of corn to show you don't have any ill feelings.
 
 BW - me
 exWH - serial cheater
 2 awesome kids
 Divorced 12/2011
 
 
 
 
 Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
 
 We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
 --------Eleanor Roosevelt
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Mike,
 Buy the poor guy some apples and ears of corn to show you don't have any ill feelings.
 
 I don't think Mike was drunk just busting on how OM sounds now.
 
 OM will have a tougher time picking up women now.
 
 NJ
I don't know about that - my exWW seems to go for POSOM's without teeth.  
 Me BH 49 WXW 50
 Married 1998
 DS 2002
 DD 2005
 D Day 1 7/28/08
 D Day 2 8/19/08
 
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I don't know about you guys, but I'm getting the feeling someone hijacked Mike's account and made that post. |  |  |  
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Or we've been "drunk posted" the internet version of drunk-dialed. |  |  |  
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I don't know about you guys, but I'm getting the feeling someone hijacked Mike's account and made that post.Is that possible?? 
 Widowed 11/10/12 after 35 years of marriage
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 “In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists.” Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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It is titled "Partial Teturn" which I'm assuming is supposed to be Partial Return, so maybe he's not able to post here very often if at all for a while. Just wanted to check in and see what answers he can get without actually posting? 
 BW-31
 FWH-32(skald)
 DD-5
 In Recovery
 "Do not go where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
 
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I don't know why, Mike, but just seeing your name on here gave me a much needed little smile.  Had to say hello.
 And I'm like catperson who ansered yes and no to your question.
 
 I've caught drunk posts from you before, where you edited them the following day so I do believe this is you.  (Then again, I've been fooled many times in my life.)  I hope it is.  And I hope you're doing everything you can to be taking rightful care of your girls.
 
 Take care.
 
 Me (FWW): 45
 BH: 46
 M: 11/94
 PA: 2/08 (4 mos)
 Confessed: 10/08
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welcome back Mike,
 I've never posted to you before, but read all your posts in part because of the humour in them and also because of the total honesty of the feelings you shared, whether you got a 2x4 or not.
 
 I hope you're doing OK.
 
 Me - BW
 FWH - BB -(PA Jul 08 - Aug 08)
 D-Day - 8 Aug 2008
 Recovering nicely
 
 
 
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And you all blast me??! That guy is WASTED and a total train wreck....If you go after someone, do it legally..It feels much better than being brought up on assault charges..DUDE |  |  |  
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And you all blast me??! That guy is WASTED and a total train wreck....If you go after someone, do it legally..It feels much better than being brought up on assault charges..DUDEHonestly can't say you haven't deserved the occasional 'blast', but welcome to the MB "multiple standards", where whether or not you 'like' someone or how much you like/dislike them is a direct indicator to how you will be seen/reacted to. Objectivity goes out the window. 
 "If you put away those who report accurately, you'll keep only those who know what you want to hear. I can think of nothing more poisonous than to rot in the stink of your own reflections." (The Lady Jessica to her daughter Alia, in Frank Herbert's Children of Dune)
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Yeah -- welcome back, Mike.  I think we enjoyed a drink together on this forum.  Me being the sophisicated one drinking a Coors and you drinking a nice glass of wine.
 Just be safe, buddy.
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And you all blast me??! That guy is WASTED and a total train wreck....If you go after someone, do it legally..It feels much better than being brought up on assault charges..DUDEDude, Think of it as the prodigal returning. And, yeah, legally is more logical. The other might be more satisfying in some ways. It's not smart, though. Don't tell me you didn't want to do just that. Lord knows I sure wanted to. Common sense and Pond Scum's physical size kept me from folly. Mike, hang in there....
Last edited by AheadOfTheCurve; 04/24/09 09:44 PM. Reason: Addendum
 
 BH 52
 FWW 50
 S26 S24
 EA 3/07-1/09
 PA 5/07-10/08
 NC finally established after eight false starts: 1/23/09
 Final Version of Events 6/09
 In a solid Recovery, and lucky beyond belief.
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