What are all the LEGAL ways you can retaliate against the OP if one wanted to? C'mon all you BS, lets dig deep. I'll start.

Call employer if circumstance dictate and get them fired.
Call OP's BS and get them divorced.
Sue them if the state allows such civil suits.
Call and cuss their REAR out.
Give them your WS.(JOKING)

Wasn't the Om in your case suffering from heart failure? hes prolly already dead by now so no need for revenge?

If they are a licensed professional, i.e. Dr. inform licensing agency. There is usually a code of ethics violation in this situations.

I thought about taking out a full page add in our local paper with pictures of my H and OW and the full story. It isn't libel because it is true.

I also saw someone had taken out a billboard announcing her H's affair and that she had filed for D, she also mentioned that he was somewhat inadequate in certain sizable areas. OUCH.

There is quite a bit that you can do when you put your mind to it.

Don't you guys have anything better to think about besides revenge? Sure, I guess revenge can be sweet at the time but does it really accomplish anything? Hasn't enough damage been done in all our situations? Why would you want to add fuel to the flame? Seems ridiculous--and futile IMO.

Sorry, but this is a TYPICAL WW's reaction to this...one who does not yet "get" the pain she has caused her BH.

<barf>

Time wounds all heels

I did not do this out of "revenge" but I DID do this as part of my exposure. I believe that is a much better reason to let someone's boss know. I'll leave the revenge up to God, He will do a much better job anyways.

OW is a teacher and I emailed the principal as well as everyone on the faculty and staff asking for their support in encouraging her to GET A LIFE and leave us alone.

I doubt she got fired, but I don't know anything about her anymore so really have no idea.


Actually, it would be better if the OP called the BS cussing and screaming (like OW did to me)...and the BS kept their cool (like I did). This was a great Plan A move, too...FWH couldn't believe how ugly she truly was when she did this.


Actually, I "gave" OW to H...I told him he could have her, I was DONE with him (and I wasn't joking).

He turned down my offer. Turned out he didn't really want to be stuck with her afterall.

Who woulda thought???

Yeah, I exposed to employer what happened AND I had filed for D. You can bet OM knows we are D when appoached by management, but where is he? Not so interested now, huh? Of course not...DUDE

Yes I somewhat agree about the revenge, but for me, I find that sometimes just talking about it or plotting is cathartic. I don't actually have to do it. I am a believer in the Karma Bus. But sometimes while I am waiting it doesn't hurt to imagine:)

I DROVE THE KARMA BUS....DUDE

Dude,

If you gave the OM a beat down would you still be married?

I think you can give the IRS anonymous tips too.

NJ

LOL Hey I have had that thought.

Dude,
Guess you didn't like my advice yesterday to just chill -- live in the NOW. Enjoy spending time with your family and perhaps -- just perhaps -- rethinking your priorities in life. Remember --God, wife, kids, etc.???

You are in the driver's seat with a real chance to work on a new relationship with your ex-w. What are you doing here? It's Friday, Dude.

Stop thinking of revenge at the moment. Be mellow, bro.

Let the rest of us think about pulling out the toe nails of OP. Not you, Dude. You have bigger fish to fry.

Just MHO.