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Vladi,

IMO my wife (smb) is not a WS, nor was she ever a WS. "I" was the WS.

smb had an A, but that does not mean she was a WS!

There's a huge difference. If I have to explain that difference, then you must be deft.

I would ask, since you weren't divorced when you were dating the woman you are now married to, does that make you a WS? Does that make what you have an affairage? If that were the case, your username should be myfamilyileave instead of myfamilyilove.


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Originally Posted by tst
I would ask, since you weren't divorced when you were dating the woman you are now married to, does that make you a WS?


hmmm Is it true you dated before you were divorced, Vladie?


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Originally Posted by tst
smb had an A, but that does not mean she was a WS!

OMG this has to be the the FOGGIEST statement I've ever heard!!! Imagine a WS turning up here and saying this??? They would be run off the board! THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR HAVING AN AFFAIR! EVER!

But this is exactly what I suspected your views were. Thats all I wanted to know, thanks


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Yep! Definitely deft!





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SMB, your wisdom, and yes, your honesty and transparency about your A has been a boon to many on here.

I pray you and TST may continue to have a wonderful recovery. You both deserve it!


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