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Re: looks like no fairy tale for me
stillbrowneyes #2257542 05/07/09 09:16 AM
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I would send it back, too. He is trying to buy YOU so he doesn't have to do anything HIMSELF. Show him that you respect yourself too much to be bought.
Re: looks like no fairy tale for me
catperson #2257653 05/07/09 11:28 AM
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where is all this money coming from?
Credit Cards?
Do you have detailed accounts?

this is probably a way for him to show that you recieved things from these accounts (Covering up the "honeymoney").

I sense a snake

Me; W 46
Him; H 46

2 girls
DD19
DD16
Dated/Married total 28 years.
..I am learning and working on myself.
Re: looks like no fairy tale for me
catperson #2257674 05/07/09 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted by catperson
I would send it back, too. He is trying to buy YOU so he doesn't have to do anything HIMSELF. Show him that you respect yourself too much to be bought.

I would have the intermediary call him and explain to him that the letter he received about no contact stands firm....he has the requirements and plan for a path back home and when he decides to follow them and follow through on them you will be there to work on the marriage with him...in the mean time he is not allowed to waltz in your house....should he make plans with the boys he needs to wait for them in his car or be there when the boys are home.
The boys should answer the door NOT you. It is there man date with there father not yours. You need to be in another room where he has no acces to you. He is not allowed to call you and ALL REQUESTS/BUSINESS must go through the intermediary.

As for the bribe....tell your intermediary it is appreciated but until the plan b requirments are met you cannot accept it. He can pick it up.
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