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My XW is a physician in a surgical specialty. I think docs in general have high ENs for Admiration and Domestic Support. Surgical specialists are highly narcissitic too. Spend lots of time at work and have patients, nurses, techs, etc. sucking up to them all day long. They are married to their career, not to you. The marriage is neglected and prioritized beneath their career. I guess if your top EN is Financial Support and you can get all of your other ENs met by others or yourself, then possibly this can work. Not in my case. This post above is SO TRUE that I cringe just reading it.  LM LM, I read your old posts and have to say you and I are very much in sync. I am glad to see you back here. I am a military intelligence officer and like you i would imagine, there is no "I'll get to it tomorrow." No. It has to be done now. It doesn't matter how many hours you have been on duty, or when you slept last. There is no other option. It does come at tremendous cost to those who love you though, doesn't it. SWW
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Hey, Sour Guy!!!! Good to see you!!! How about an update? Yeah Lemonman, We were talking about you before. Believer says that you are in love. Whats the deal?
But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats
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