lindz,

I have not posted to you before, and I don't post often, and the reason being is for the way people are treated around here.
I am a BS, and I can tell you I don't hold any grudge or desire to take my anger out on someone like you.
You made alot of mistakes and we all know that, but now you are trying to make those up and move onwards with your relationship.
You have alot of courage to come and post here and I applaud you for sticking with it!
I congradulate both you and your H on the baby that is coming, and I am happy for you both that it has worked out the way you hope.
Keep on being open and honest with you husband, don't hide or omit anything from him, and once the baby arrives remember to try and set aside alittle time to be with each other, because it will be easy to forget to do once you have the baby there.
Ultimately all that is important is that your H starts to believe and trust in you! It doesn't matter what the people feel or think, you only have to be accountable to your husband and your soon to be child.

All the very best to you!!