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#22637 10/20/99 06:49 PM
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Wife has been gone now for 2 weeks, still has not moved every thing out I have prayed for God to do thy will. I have also offered to help her find a place to stay, she called my mother and told her that she wanted her to know her side of the story why she was leaving, and went on tell her everything that she didnt like about me. But never once did she mention what she had done to me except she told her that I made her mad and she attacked me, but didnt tell her she busted my windshield, broke several musical instruments of mine, and other assorted things around the house. I never hit her! I know that she is a good woman, and I still love her. Today for the first time we had a meaningful conversation, she shared with me that if she didnt get the duplex she was looking at that she would be under the control the man that she is staying with in his basement with her 17 year old daughter, she told me that she felt homeless, she is supposed to call me tonight to let me know if she got the duplex, and if not she has told me that she will have to stay in her current situation until the 1st of the year. Please pray that we will still be able to have meaningful conversations and that she will realize that I love her, trust her, and want her to come home, she has told me that she doesnt think that she is going to get it and I am praying that she does so that she is staying at a single mans house who is supposed to be just a family friend! Please advise, and pray for us!<BR>------------------<BR>Eugene<P>IP: Logged<BR><P>------------------<BR>Eugene

#22638 10/20/99 10:57 PM
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I made the <I>mistake</I> of helping my wife find a place of her own... and even helped her pay to set it up. <B>BAD MOVE!</B> Now her OM(the sponge) has moved in with her and is sponging off of the money I gave her! He has no quams about it either!<P>You should try to make her decision to leave as difficult as possible. Avoid breaking ties before you have enough time for Plan A to do do some depositing into love banks. I don't know how long you've been doing Plan A... but stick with it longer... if you can.<P>My prayers are with you...<P>Jim<P>----------------<BR>I can dare myself... I'll put a pebble in my shoe...<BR>I can walk... I can walk! I shall call the pebble Dare...<BR>Dare shall be carried... And when we both have had enough<BR>I will take him from my shoe, singing... "Meet your new road!"...<BR>Finally glad... Finally glad... That you are here... By my side...


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