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Humbled Wife:
You posted more about your ONS on the "welcome Back MB!" thread.
About how it wasn't just a ONS, but that there was three others involved as weel that night.
I beleive that you need to start a new thread, and start repairing your relationship with your BH with this new info. A drunken ONS is one thing. Rape is another. And when you are drunk, consent is no longer something that is given, as much as taken.
Start over. You need much more help with repairing your marriage after that admission.
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LG, you are right, I am worried about her. The guilt of a ONS is bad enough for her, but this rape thing on top of that has me really worried about her. She is goin through a lot right now and needs more help than I had thought now with this new info...and her BH isnt really in any condition to support her right now, ya know?
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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LG, this is not a new development. She admitted to this board about six weeks ago (about the multiple partners - no rape though). Also, she indicated that her husband knew that there were multiple partners when she first exposed to him when she returned from Vegas. I hope things are improving for her...
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