Is it just me or does anyone else have this problem??

When my husband is away from me..at work..or in school..All I can do it think about him. How much I love him, want him, need him. Just all these really great thoughts!! And then almost the moment we are together in the same area..Its like every little thing about him just gets on my last nerve!!!

How can I fix this?? Anybody??

Thanks

Hi, Kam, and welcome to Marriagebuilders...

Really glad you're here...and yes, I believe what you're experiencing is common.

Would you say when he's not in your presence, you think of all the great moments together, his great qualities, dwell in what he's done to fill your love bank with deposits?

And when he is in your presence, that expectation of him doing, right then, more of what you were just treasuring when he was away, looms big and unmeetable?

Also, that in your presence he may be LB'ing (love busting) right off the back, even as he enters the door? Up to you to know what makes withdrawals from your bank, what expectations you have which, when not met, withdraws from your love bank.

Please read all the articles, get the book Love Busters, and Buyers, Renters and Freeloaders...and see if some of what you experience can be changed just by your own changes.

You're not alone. Welcome.

LA