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#2265416 10/27/09 01:32 AM
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Its going on 2 years and my wife is relocating back to Aus and tells me she wants to work at the marriage.
I have a lot of mixed emotions at the moment its very exciting to me that she wants to work at things.
I am in a good place at the moment and I am a little concerned about the what ifs. I just don't want to go down that road we both travelled 2 years ago.
I just hope some people here would be happy for me.

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Sounds like good news.

But, be carefull and take it easy and slow.
Is she comming back to Aus or is she coming back to you?

Wish you all the best


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Me 38, WH, 36
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status: slow, slow, recovery...
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How are you going to work on the marriage?

Is WW NC with the OM?

How long has she been NC with the OM?

Is WW willing to be transparent so you can verify NC?

Both of you need to go together for STD tests before you have sex.

Has WW sent a NC letter with you reviewing it and you sending it?

I am happy that you are happy but you must protect yourself.

Don't remember your story can you give a recap from then to now?

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Well true to script she got tired of OM. Have you learned about meeting EN'S from this site?

All the best. Don't forget to establish boundaries before she comes over.


But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats

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