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#2265524 10/27/09 10:04 AM
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I feel like I am backwards since I found MB after my husband moved out. Any suggestions on what to do after the storm of exposure wears off? I have read the Carrot and the Stick thread, and got some good ideas, but some hard to apply since husband is not living here.

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Free2be,

It is easier to keep this on one thread.

You need to put your taker side to bed for six weeks. Establish boundaries. Snoop. Record how he failed you -establish the means that he could use to wander from you.

Learn to be a good listener. If you can get to an MB weekend -good. If this is not possible, write into MB for advise.

I would recommend that you fill the EN list. Read the five language of love and meet his EXACT need.


But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats

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