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Hi,
seeking referrals to a male marriage counselor in the Mpls/St Paul area who follows the Harley method, and/or who has helped a lot of people recover together.

I want a male counselor bc FWH will feel more "listened to" if we work with a man. But if you have a great woman, I'm of course open to any and all suggestions in the Mpls/St Paul area. Preferably someone who also has solid experience working with clinical depression

I tried calling the 888 number on the site here, either to make an appt or get a referral but didn't reach anyone. While the phone counseling sounds good, I know FWH will be more comfortable with someone he can see in person.

Thanks!


Me - BW, 45
Him - WH, 44 - will be FWH
DS - 6 - was bf of OW's son, not anymore
We have been together 17+ years and not ending it anytime soon.
D Day 10/25/09
EoPA+NC instituted 10/26/09, R just starting, long way to go

shockandawe now thinks of self as Mama Lion
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Ummm...you do realize the Harley's are in your area? I'm fairly certain they do office visits as well as phone counseling.


The offices of Marriage Builders, Inc. are located at:
12568 Ethan Avenue North
White Bear Lake, Minnesota 55110

Mr. Wondering


FBH(me)-51 FWW-49 (MrsWondering)
DD19 DS 22 Dday-2005-Recovered

"agree to disagree" = Used when one wants to reject the objective reality of the situation and hopefully replace it with their own.
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Great, thank you!!! I knew the Harleys were here but didn't know they did in person work, was trying to call them to ask.

Also ironic that the most recent MB workshop was held here in MN Oct 23-24 and my D Day was Oct 25 (early am 10/25,late night 10/24...). But guessing we were in no condition for the workshop, at least not yet...

I will call their office again today. I tried the 888 number for phone counselinG or referral but couldn't get thru yesterday. Will do this morning!

Other referrals still wanted and welcome in FWH doesn't click with someone or if we can't get in right away!!!

Thx again!!!

Thanks for the address. White Bear Lake is about 15 minutes from our house!


Me - BW, 45
Him - WH, 44 - will be FWH
DS - 6 - was bf of OW's son, not anymore
We have been together 17+ years and not ending it anytime soon.
D Day 10/25/09
EoPA+NC instituted 10/26/09, R just starting, long way to go

shockandawe now thinks of self as Mama Lion

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