You're a newlywed.

How wonderful!!!

Many many blessings.

awww you guys are so wonderful ...... Pepper good to see your still here .....

I have been reading some of these stories and it breaks my heart to see so many people go through this... Not sure I can offer much advice seeing how i screwed up my plan b many times.... but I can say looking back on things if I had followed the plan to the tee maybe things would have been easier for me .....

So listen up everyone follow the plans to keep yourself sane and keep the fog out of your life. You will be so much better off. And if by chance the Wayward wakes up one day you will still have the love to try recovery if thats what you want.

Hello to everyone. Just thought I'd check in an say hello.

Quick update,

Things for me are so good still have a wonderful marriage going on. I am so blessed with my husband he is so wonderful to me.

All the kids and grandkids are wonderful. Oldest DS is in Florida now with his family. DD still lives here with my granddaughter her hubby is MIA thank goodness, he cheated and did many bad things to them. She is getting divorced but she is a trooper an moving on without him. youngest DS is married 1 yr. now and doing good.

Even better news is we are leaving Okla. to move to Az. hubby got a great job offer there. DD and granddaughter are going with us. I am so excited about it.

Ex-wh still married to ow. I have not talked to him in months and when I did it's only because he came to my job to shop. I will say he looks like crap lol. I will have to see him soon for granddaughters birthday party but it does not bother me any more. If the ow is with him he won't talk to me or my hubby that has not changed but if he is without her he will try and hold a conversation with me. It's so funny how after all this time she still gets mad if we have contact no matter how small.

He still pretty much ignors the kids unless he wants to be mad at them for something. Seems the only time he talks to them is if he wants something from them or just to gripe at them. Oldest DS has not talked to him for over a year, he says he is done with his dad. Exwh does not have a phone number or address for ds. The one thing that makes me happy is DS calls his step dad almost daily an loves him like he is his dad, in fact he calls him dad.

Sorry for rambling on so but just wanted to catch up for everyone.

And for those of you still going through this pain just remember there is a rainbow on the other side of the dark clouds. I hope for those of you who want to save your marriage I pray it will happen, but if not you will make it and be happy again.

Thank you for your update. Happy for your life.

The best revenge is living well.

Hi Okla! Good to hear from you.

Better and better. So glad to read that your life goes on and up.