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Well, it's kinda a catch 22. Cause to some degree he was causing her pain by making an issue out of something that she really didn't intend. He just misunderstood her.
So, R, stop causin' our friend pain. Got it?
While it's admirable that she make the changes to the FB so that she is not causing him pain, I think it's important that she let him know that she too was caused pain by his reaction.
Umm, Miss Bugs Bomb, are you comin' back here or are we just going to keep talking about you?
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I agree that they need to discuss this. I don't think you need to overanalyze where R is coming from, though. Reassurance is a good thing, and perhaps he needs it. His jumping the gun and talking about ending things is a knee jerk reaction to run away from the pain, IMO. Run away, run away...
Better to discuss this after he has time to quiet his head a bit.
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Divorced April 2009
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 Read your post on SL's thread. So Bugs, what's up?
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How about some news, Bugs?
How are you doing?
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Hey Luna!
thanks for checking in. I'm doing well, thanks! I did a brief update a couple of days ago on my other thread. It's "A New Thread for Bugs" (I think!).
Check it out and let me know how you are doing!
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D Day 11/06
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"You Can't Fix Stupid" - My Mom
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Thanks for the info. Bugs. Will do!
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