Just read Chris's I'm tired. Had some questions about the anulment. If I understand you correctly, if everything was alright with the marriage and all your friends thought you were the ideal couple, until out of the clear blue H has an affair and wants a divorce yoou can't get an annulment. Is this what you are saying? I mean by committing adultery didn't he break the marriage vows? I'm not sure that it really matters to me because I was a convert and have been dissatisfied with the church for a little while, I have been going to the denomination I was before marriage. I'm not to sure it will matter to H sent he seems to have lost everything for OW. But I know it matters to my inlaws. In fact they told me they wanted me to get an annulment if we did divorce because they would like to see me with someone. They don't want me to be alone they said they want me to be happy with someone else if possible. But anyway, I will be out of town till Sunday and I will have no acess to a computer. If you want to email these answers so I will see them my email is diseiler@hotmail.com Thanks I really appreciate this.<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Not exactly di,<P>I put a post back again on Chris's "I'm tired" about a <B>very</B> good booklet about divorce and remarriage.<P>If I get enough responses... I will gladly post excerpts out of the booklet for those that are interested... there is good news and bad news... if you love God... it is always good though... I realy do believe this!<P>If you don't respond later today... I will email you regarding some short excerpts. I gotta work (long drive) today and tomorrow. I can do alot more posting this weekend.. the kids are with my W and OM <P>Love (from His side) Jim <P>--------------<BR>I can dare myself... I'll put a pebble in my shoe...<BR>I can walk... I can walk! I shall call the pebble Dare...<BR>Dare shall be carried... And when we both have had enough<BR>I will take him from my shoe, singing... "Meet your new road!"...<BR>Finally glad... Finally glad... That you are here... By my side...

Here you go di,<P><A HREF="http://users.erols.com/herczeg/Annulment.html" TARGET=_blank>NSR's Annulment Stuff</A><P>Jim<P>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited October 23, 1999).]<p>[This message has been edited by NSR (edited October 23, 1999).]