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#2271633 11/09/09 05:20 PM
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It sure seems like the BWs are a much more moody group on here than the (f)WW and the BHs on here. Anyone else get that impression over the years on this forum? I know its not a statistical sampling. DUDE

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Ay yi yi...DJ much? doh2 This will not end well for you - nor should it...sigh

To answer your question though...NO, that has not been my experience at all...Some of my very dearest friends here are BWs...

Care to explain what in the world would have inspired you to go on this kamikaze mission?

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FWW ~ 47 ~ Me
FBH ~ 50 ~ MrWondering
DD ~ 17
Dday ~ 2005 ~ Recovered

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LOL, Mrs. W. That's just Dude stirring up more... soup.


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mad frown

crazy laugh

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rant2 cry

dramaqueen

twoxfour

Don't know what you mean Dude?


Me - BW
FWH - BB -(PA Jul 08 - Aug 08)
D-Day - 8 Aug 2008
Recovering nicely


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Originally Posted by serendipitous
mad frown

crazy laugh

shocked grumble

rant2 cry

dramaqueen

twoxfour

Don't know what you mean Dude?

I think their use of graphics is higher too, especially the one w/ the bat, hitting that poor wayward ex-husband...DUDE

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I can guess Dude which topic you have been reading lately


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DS 12/8
OW1: 2004 EA/PA?
ILYBNILWY 4/09
OW2 2008/2009 EA/PA?
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D-Day: OW3 PA 06/20/09
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Originally Posted by serendipitous
dramaqueen

I like this new one.


BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Nooo

Hey, I finally figured out how to use those little icons!

Dude, I think you may be a little sadomasochistic.


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DS: 30, 27, 25
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OC: 10
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Don't you think that BW's have the right to be moody? I don't know about BH's but I know that I made a vow on my wedding day, stayed home to raise our children, thus giving up may career. And this is how I get repaid? YA I'M MOODY!!!

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NEVER call a woman moody...or hormonal...or menopausal....or fat....or....you get the idea

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Originally Posted by lurioosi2
NEVER call a woman moody...or hormonal...or menopausal....or fat....or....you get the idea

You ladies are cool...You know I love my betrayed peeps...DUDE

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Originally Posted by Dude007
It sure seems like the BWs are a much more moody group on here than the (f)WW and the BHs on here. Anyone else get that impression over the years on this forum? I know its not a statistical sampling. DUDE

I can't speak for the others, but on some days the hurt is worse than others...and for me, the healing has only dulled he ache yet.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Originally Posted by Dude007
It sure seems like the BWs are a much more moody group on here than the (f)WW and the BHs on here. Anyone else get that impression over the years on this forum? I know its not a statistical sampling. DUDE

MrRollieEyes



Me,BW - 42; FWH-46
4 kids
D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006
D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR)
Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007

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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
Originally Posted by Dude007
It sure seems like the BWs are a much more moody group on here than the (f)WW and the BHs on here. Anyone else get that impression over the years on this forum? I know its not a statistical sampling. DUDE

I can't speak for the others, but on some days the hurt is worse than others...and for me, the healing has only dulled he ache yet.

Ok, but have you noticed the cat fights on here are normally between BWs? I mean, I've said a thing or two to some of these guys(TheRoad/BigKahuna) but it last about one post then I'm over it. Ya know?!

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No.

I see a lot of hurting PEOPLE. I don't see it as a woman/man thing.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
No.

I see a lot of hurting PEOPLE. I don't see it as a woman/man thing.

Meh..Just an observation...DUDE

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Moody??!??!!..... think.....me?!!????......Why, never dahling..... lashes


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Moody?????
I never get moody. Please pass me a big stick... twoxfour rotflmao


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D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
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Nice attempt at MB social suicide DUDE lol

let me put it this was DUDE...women have to put up with bleeding once a month, getting kids out of their privates and loosing any hope of having a normal body thereafter, women have to shave, pluck wax put face creams on, do make up and hair, look angelic, motherly all day and be a sex godess in the bedroom, after all of this effort then we also got to keep a clean house and keep up with the gossip so i think we have earned the right to be moody once in a while dont u?? lol
Whats the mens excuse for ever being moody??


BW 36(Me)
WS 38
Married: 2000
DD1November 22 2008 - DD2 October 2014
PA Duration September 08 - November 08
Second discovery- 6 online affairs 4 sexual one emotional. October 2014.kids: DS 17, DS 14, DS 12, DS 10 . Baby after divorce DS 18months

Divorced

Was misled into thinking we were in recovery for 6 years.

If you were shocked reading any of this, that this is the consequence of not following MB to the LETTER.

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Originally Posted by Brutallyhonest28
Nice attempt at MB social suicide DUDE lol

let me put it this was DUDE...women have to put up with bleeding once a month, getting kids out of their privates and loosing any hope of having a normal body thereafter, women have to shave, pluck wax put face creams on, do make up and hair, look angelic, motherly all day and be a sex godess in the bedroom, after all of this effort then we also got to keep a clean house and keep up with the gossip so i think we have earned the right to be moody once in a while dont u?? lol
Whats the mens excuse for ever being moody??

I know ya'll do all that, but hey, I do all the work in bed??! DUDE

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