2 children involve. Ex and I have 50/50 custody since September 2009. Ex does not provide me with childrens daycare information. When ex takes children for Dr. visit, he does not inform me so I can go to the Dr. visit with my sons. Ex's gf/wife went to sons classroom; impersonating as a counselor to obtain information from sons teacher regarding sons school information and myself. Son has a learning disability and needs one-on-one help, but ex is in denying about son's learning disability. Ex doesn't want to put son in special ed program which son can greatly benefit.

Spoke to attorney; he said ex's gf has no right over sons and has no right to be in sons classroom. Sons' school has being inform and they will stop ex's gf from going to sons class or obtain sons school information. Attorney said our custody order is too new and if I take ex to court now, judge may not change the custody order. The best course of action at this point is to write letters to ex attorney stating that if ex doesn't comply then we will take ex to court.

Ex's gf/wife was stocking me and prank calling me when ex and I are still together. I file a complaint against ex's gf, there were no restrain order.

Living in state of CA. Is this true? What are my right and what can I do to geth ex to comply?