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cg, if that's true, and you're embarrassed to come back, don't be. That's the beauty of this forum. We'll never meet you. You can admit your mistakes to us and we (1) will understand and (2) will help you keep going til you get what you want.
Let us know!
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Claygal,
Please do come back and post to let us know how you are doing. I think of you and kateydid every day. We need to get through Plan B together. It IS really hard. I am tempted to give up all the time, especially when I see my DDs missing their dad, but I know that I have to stay strong and dark. I can't let my DDs see their father using emotional and psychological abuse tactics on me - I cannot let them see that he can work any control over me because that will teach them to allow the same thing to happen to them. I don't want them to ever go through this in their own marriages.
I hope you are ok and I care about you!
BW (me - 45)
WH - 45
2 DDs
Married 20 years, together 25
DDay Spring 2009
WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
Plan A - 4 months
Very dark Plan B Fall 2009
WH files D Summer 2010
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Hey Claygal just wanted to let you know that im sorry your no longer on here and hope things are going well for you. Hope that you can find you way back here soon.
BW 36(Me)
WS 38
Married: 2000
DD1November 22 2008 - DD2 October 2014
PA Duration September 08 - November 08
Second discovery- 6 online affairs 4 sexual one emotional. October 2014.kids: DS 17, DS 14, DS 12, DS 10 . Baby after divorce DS 18months
Divorced
Was misled into thinking we were in recovery for 6 years.
If you were shocked reading any of this, that this is the consequence of not following MB to the LETTER.
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