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I am currently separated from my wife. My daughter and husband are having a vow renewal ceremony at their new home. I want to support them and I want to be there. The question is how do I handle this situation as my wife will be there and I think she is bringing her boyfriend.
I have discussed this with my daughter and she says she does not want to get in the middle and I understand that. I don't want to create a fuss for them either.
How do I honor them and how do I handle the No Contact in a case like this?
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Sit up front.
Look good.
Smell good.
Smile.
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Ignore the infidels.
If anyone asks you questions (about WW and OM) answer the question honestly:
"I am here to support the marriage of my D and her H.
I will not speak about my wife's adultery at this wonderful event."
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and say "adultery" not "affair"
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Sit up front.
Look good.
Smell good.
Smile.
and
Ignore the infidels. Perfect 
D-Day #1 Aug/2007.
D-Day #2 1/27/12
Legally Separated
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