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Is this what MB means by EXPOSURE??? Gosh... I wish I were done with the D process so I had nothing to lose by forwarding the photo to anyone and everyone. But the information I glean is way, way more important at this time. Hey... maybe that's why she sent it... for me to give up this souce of spying. Nah.... they're only thinking of themselves. I'm not even on their radar. But the Art of War -- I like this concept. Keep your friends close and your enemies closer. Guess I can't get any closer than the same view her gynocologist has. 
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I emailed a copy of the offending "beaver" to a secret account for safe keeping. Yep, I covered my tracks. Deleted the "sent" and emptied the "trash."
Divine intervention here. When I finally went to bed last night and turned on the TV, there was a story about privacy on the internet. How most anything posted can be accessed. The report was about a college project that was able to gather 15 pages of private information on a Supreme Court judge. A private detective also put his 2 cents in on how easy it is to get information on anyone today.
Back to the Art of War.... the enemy just let slipped some damaging information. Do I act like I didn't see it because it's upsetting? Do I let it sit where it is only to find one day that it's disappeared or I no longer have access to it? Or do I make a copy, put it in safe keeping, and no one is the wiser since the original is still there undisturbed?
And to think -- I didn't have to dress in black and break into a building holding a flashlight to find this info. It found ME while I was drinking coffee in my PJs. Alleluia for modern technology!
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This just goes to show you how incredibly stupid this OW is. Not to mention what a low life, classless POS.
When the sex finally wears off they got nothin.
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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CL -- you're a computer queen... did I cover all my bases?
Yep... she's definitely a POS. Her MO is that she's already trolling for the next Mr. Bimbo... maybe she'll find one at her kids performance today. I'm sure she can smell out a guy with a big wad of cash in his pocket.
Heard you and Hope had a good laugh at the ....... Yep... what an act for D!ck to tie his future on. He MUST be on drugs!
I hate to ask but can my situation get any more bizare????
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If you don't want D1ck to find it, yes, I think you covered your bases. She will probably ask him if he got it though, and when he can't find it won't he know that you probably intercepted it?
Oh yes, we laughed at the band. I get it now. Not sure who thinks they have talent though. I thought they were awful.
And yes, your sitch can get even more bizarre. Look at mine. Anything can happen.....
Hold on for the ride....
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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Back to the pic. The original email is still there...
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Guess I can't get any closer than the same view her gynocologist has. OMGosh! This line made me snort out loud and I needed that real bad right now! LOL!
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I hate to ask but can my situation get any more bizare???? Yes. The higher the addiction (escalating weird & crazy behavior) the worse the fall to the bottom. Witness Believer's WH. Once the "high" stopped, he wanted Believer back. She was so very "done". He killed himself. It can be very dangerous to be close to an addict when they do their free fall. Keep your wits about you. Your H is reptilian where you are concerned right now.
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What's the video called? I'll leave that comment.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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OK... I'll give you the.....
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I have it. It has no comments, right?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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Right...
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There you go.  One comment.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
I will not spend my life this way.
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Hey... KR... Thanks.
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Done. Anything else I can do for you?
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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LOVE having friends like you. Your bus just keeps getting closer and closer to the target. Thanks a million!!!!
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Let me know if D!ck sees it. Heheh.
One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger
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BEAUTIFUL JOB. Just checked it out. BEAUTIFUL!!!
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It just gets better and better every day.
Real estate agent just left. Based on today's market and comps for my neighborhood, if I were to sell our house today, less commissions and fees, I'd end up owing $58,000.
Yep, OWING thanks to the home equity line D!ck pilfered.
The good news is a dear friend is bringing me free firewood so the kids and I stay warm this winter.
Ahhhhh...... affairs, betrayal, divorce......the gifts that keep on giving.
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Real estate agent just left. Based on today's market and comps for my neighborhood, if I were to sell our house today, less commissions and fees, I'd end up owing $58,000.
Yep, OWING thanks to the home equity line D!ck pilfered. I forget: are his parents around? I'd send them this information in a Christmas card.
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