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Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.
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Cat, I'm so sorry (((Cat))) I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.
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Oh cat. I'm so very sorry.
Are you okay?
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Two children D9 and D4 !
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Thanks, guys. My skin is raw and my eyes are almost puffed shut, but ok. We're on our way to Tyler to tell D19. She just started classes yesterday, and I'm hoping she'll be ok to stay there for the rest of the week. Mom wouldn't want her to mess up her classes.
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Deep condolences, Cat. In prayers,
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Thanks again, everyone. As I expected, D19 was eerily unaffected. She's been that way her whole life. Scares me some times, but aside from that she's the most amazing kid I know. I do the same thing she does - compartmentalize - and it makes me wonder if she has seen me do it and learned it that way, or if it's genetic.
I'll go back and get her Friday.
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How are *you* doing, cat? Are you holding up? Being extra-gentle with yourself?
You don't have to take care of *anyone* but *yourself* right now, ya hear???
me - 47  H - 39  married 2001 DS 8a  DS 8b :crosseyedcrazy: (Why is DS7b now a blockhead???) (Ack! Now he's not even a blockhead, just a word! That's no fun!)
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I am so sorry. My prayers for you and your family tonight.
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Cat, Just wanted you to know that we prayed for you and your family at our board meeting tonight at church.  Mark
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Oh Cat I am so Sorry for your loss. Its allways hard when a daughters Mom passes. She was a real inspiration for you. Her strength lives on in you Cat and she is now face to face with the Father.
Prayers going out to you and the Family
Me 56 Former BS Widowed 5-17-09 --married 25 years. 4 children DS-35 previous marriage--18-22 DGrandSons 6 and 4 Me former BS DD-29 with DGDs 5 and 1yr DSs 26 and 23 Teilhard de Chardin..“We are not human beings having a spiritual experience. We are spiritual beings having a human experience.” ...Sounds about right to me.
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Thanks, all. Doing better. I really appreciate the wishes.
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Hi Catperson....me too! I just wanted to send you a cyber hug. I recently lost my dad in Late Dec. I have not posted on this site since 2005 but i've peaked in alot. I have read your thread and just wanted to say that you are amazing. Strong and very intelligent! If you lived near me..no doubt we'd be buddies. I'll have a glass of vino with you in spirit lady!!! Stay the course.
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My mom died tonight. So sorry Cat. Wish I had seen this before I yelled at you on SAA. (((Cat))))
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Thank you all very much. I really appreciate everyone coming here. It means a lot.
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Hey Cat,
You mentioned in one of your post on this thread that You are an HGTV girl. HGTV...is my "home porn" channel. Love it...and was curious if you are a member on the message bds @hgtv.com?
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Hmmm... didn't know they had one. I'll have to take a look...like I need a reason to spend more time on the Internet, lol.
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Oh I hear ya on another Website to take up time. But this one sure has some talented folks. Lots of inspiration.
How are things going on the homefront Cat?
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Ok. My skin is raw from crying. Starting to beat myself up for not being a better daughter...all that stuff. Went to work yesterday cos we had a division-wide meeting, but they told me to go home. And my neck is starting to seize up from stress. But I didn't fall apart or anything; but I do tend to push things away.
H has been VERY supportive. Most importantly, he has worked very hard not to get in fights with my brother, lol. I'll have to make it up to him some time.
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