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#2284981 12/08/09 07:57 PM
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A woman I met through a support site, Bec Smith, has a music vidoe on Youtube entitled " I was right". Pretty sad song about her expierience with her XWH.

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That made me cry.

Another song that's right on is "Forgive" by Rebecca Lynn Howard. It also gets me every time.

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We had a group get together in Minneapolis and I met her. Very nice person. She gave each of us a CD.
I get teary watching it, as well.

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Did she stay married to him, or did they divorce?

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That was really good. There was a music thread that died, but I'll bump it if you'd like to add it...I had something I wanted to add to it anyway...


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Originally Posted by cate1982
Did she stay married to him, or did they divorce?

It was about two years ago, maybe three(before this particular song was released.) So, my memory may not be correct. But, I think the relationship ended.

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Oh man, did that bring back a bad memory or what?


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years

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