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I did a search and found nothing matching, but it's possible I didn't use the correct criteria.

In any event, given how popular text messaging is these days, what do people think of sending anonymous text messages to those who might otherwise avoid our calls and letters?

Wiser heads than I can address the legality of doing so. However, I do know that FREE anonymous text messages can be sent to virtually any phone using this site. No personally identifying information is required. Recipients receive your text message from "admin" at the site. There is no way to track back the message.

I've been sitting here in Plan B wondering why I'm not doing more to kill the A. Sending SMS messages to the OM from time to time, saying things like "OMW's lawyer isn't happy with you" or similar might rattle him...

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Oh, yeah. Here's another free SMS service:

http://gizmosms.com/


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I've been sitting here in Plan B wondering why I'm not doing more to kill the A. Sending SMS messages to the OM from time to time, saying things like "OMW's lawyer isn't happy with you" or similar might rattle him...
Because in Plan B you DON'T interfere. You don't get involved. You let the two blow themselves up.

I KNOW it's hard to do, but that's what Plan B is about.

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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
Because in Plan B you DON'T interfere. You don't get involved. You let the two blow themselves up.

I KNOW it's hard to do, but that's what Plan B is about.

Fred, she's correct.

Go lift weights.

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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
Because in Plan B you DON'T interfere. You don't get involved. You let the two blow themselves up.

I KNOW it's hard to do, but that's what Plan B is about.
Yep, that's why I have resisted the temptation to do anything, even surreptitiously. That's why I removed her from my Facebook account, why I don't check the keylogger anymore, why I don't even spy on her Facebook account. As far as I am concerned, she is MIA right now.

I need to repeat this FOR ME, more than for anyone else: There are so many negatives to recovering this marriage that I have the required six month waiting period before I can pull the trigger on it. If there isn't DRAMATIC change between now and then, I will have moved on and the most inconvenient thing for me to do is take a morning off from work to file the papers.



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Go lift weights. kiss

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No more from me on my story in this thread. Check out this thread if you want to read more.

My purpose in starting a new thread was to suggest a new weapon that MIGHT be useful to BS in fighting the A.


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You're a good man Fredo.

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Listen to Pep.

Fred, you don't know what will happen in 6 months. You don't know even what will happen tomorrow. But I can promise you this. It won't be what you think.

Listen to Pep... Go lift weights.... kiss


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Originally Posted by Fred_in_VA
No more from me on my story in this thread. Check out this thread if you want to read more.

My purpose in starting a new thread was to suggest a new weapon that MIGHT be useful to BS in fighting the A.

That would ONLY apply when you are in Plan A....

Now... this I can speak to....


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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
Listen to Pep.

Fred, you don't know what will happen in 6 months. You don't know even what will happen tomorrow. But I can promise you this. It won't be what you think.

Listen to Pep... Go lift weights.... kiss
I have ten pound dumbbells. I'm doing curls between keystrokes.

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[/quote] I have ten pound dumbbells. I'm doing curls between keystrokes.

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You are going to be one buff guy by the time you have been in B a while.

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Originally Posted by QueeniesAdventures
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I've been sitting here in Plan B wondering why I'm not doing more to kill the A. Sending SMS messages to the OM from time to time, saying things like "OMW's lawyer isn't happy with you" or similar might rattle him...
Because in Plan B you DON'T interfere. You don't get involved. You let the two blow themselves up.

I KNOW it's hard to do, but that's what Plan B is about.

This is right, Fred. YTou don't want to look like a psycho. You've made your position clear. Now, back off, run you [censored] off racing, and have fun in Iceland. Vikings kicked butt today, BTW. How did the skins do(I still cannot believe they age away with that name in today's world.)

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The REDSKINS beat the Raiders. dance2


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Originally Posted by Zelmo
This is right, Fred.YTou don't want to look like a psycho. You've made your position clear. Now, back off, run you [censored] off racing, and have fun in Iceland. Vikings kicked butt today, BTW. How did the skins do(I still cannot believe they age away with that name in today's world.)
Oh, I know better than to do anything without first checking with the collective wisdom here, trust me on that!

I think I just feel a little freaked because I didn't have a chance to do Plan A for more than a week, and I think sometimes I'd like to do some via "guerrilla warfare."

As always, you folks are right, and that's the reason I keep coming back here. It's like A.A. -- I've stopped drinking (contact w/ WW), but I need the constant reminders of what I'm doing and why.

I'm really not whining outside of this board. Really, I'm not.


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I get this totally too.

And we do all understand...

And most of us have walked this part and understand.


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