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my husband is in prison serving a life sentence for the rape of uour 11 year old daughter. this was 5 years ago. a year ago i started to date a man. I have not legally divorced my husband. would this be considered adultery?
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Many here will consider your involvement with another man to be adultery since you are not divorced. The much better question is why haven't you divorced this man? Have you filed?
ex-WW had 2 PAs in first 2 years. Buh-bye.
Divorce finalized: 1/28/09
Now just living and loving again.
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Better yet, why aren't you in prison for demasculating him?
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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Pariah, by "demasculating him" do you mean dating another man?
I have problems seeing a child rapist as "masculated" in the first place.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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My guess is that Pariah meant why is she (torres) not in prison for cutting off his private parts due to the rape of their daughter.
That is how i read his post anyway.
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Pariah, by "demasculating him" do you mean dating another man?
I have problems seeing a child rapist as "masculated" in the first place. No, she should have gone Lorena Bobbit on him and choked him to death with it.
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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Pariah, by "demasculating him" do you mean dating another man?
I have problems seeing a child rapist as "masculated" in the first place. No, she should have gone Lorena Bobbit on him and choked him to death with it. Gotcha, Pariah and s_c. I was being particularly dense there.
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Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
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Interesting fact ... Registered: Sat Mar 13 2004
Posts: 3 3 posts in over 5 years ...
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The answer is obviously yes. If you are married and having a relationship with anyone other than your spouse, then it is definitely adultery.
What makes absolutely no sense is why you haven't divorced a man who raped your daughter and is serving a life sentence.
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