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I have been dealling with a WW who was pregnant by OM and ended up getting an abortion. I am still being lied to by WW i believe that the A has ended but the details of the A is what i can not get over. I have a thread over in the pregnancy and child section. But i believe i am at the point now where i am ready to call it quits but i feel as if i am not strong enough and the sad part about it is that my WW knows that about me. She knows that i would rather stay with her and be unhappy than to deal with a bunch of childish drama, so now i have to figure out how to build up my strength to not give in when she starts acting crazy or trying to use the kids as a guilt trip. About a year ago when i told her i did not want to be with her and i was leaving she went out and slashed all four tires on my truck so i could not leave and i know that she is the type to cost me my job or try to make me hit her so she can put me in jail, to be honest i would not put it past her to hit her self and say that i did it. But like i was saying i have wanted to end this marriage quite some time but i was not strong enough, so here i am today looking for advice or even just someone who has been through a divorce with a crazy x to tell me to stay strong and that it will all be ok in the end
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Your WW sounds very crazy if she's slashing tires. Do you have any friends that are police? Get advice from police or lawyer on how to protect yourself if WW takes crazy route.
Gg
D-Day #1 Aug/2007.
D-Day #2 1/27/12
Legally Separated
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Like Nike, just do it. Find out what to do and do it.
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Go to the police and file a report on her for slashing your tires. Then go to your lawyer and file for divorce.
No matter how little you think of yourself, even YOU deserve someone better than that.
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