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This is a real good one. We had a Kubota Tractor with a front end loader that we used on the horse farm. The exWW took it to her place since she still has the horses. Anyways, she did not make the payments on it and Kubota reposessed it on Tuesday.

Here's where the Karma bus comes in - she's in the bullseye of the Nor'Easter this weekend and is forcast to get two feet of snow at her house! Her driveway is 200 yards long, and she is driving a tiny Nissan Versa!

The 4WD tractor with front end loader sure would come in handy today...


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I am so glad for you, wonder who she will take that out on?! Can't wait until the Karma bus visits my WH! She will sure be ranting and raving and cussing up a storm and you won't be around but we all know who will and he will be getting the end of this or he will be doing it to her and things are not going to look so pretty anymore. Yahoo!


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Ahhhhh, the karma bus, aint it grand.


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Karma is indeed a beeach.


Me: BH, 49 yrs old
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A's occurred in 1988
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Dday #2 (3 A's) Sep. 5, 2009

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I certainly hope nobody repossessed her SHOVEL! Toothless dude is gonna need that to clear the way to the road. I'm sure he'll enjoy it. He sounded like a hardworking type. But if he doesn't and she has to do her OWN shoveling because he won't help--whoa, Nellie! Sounds like an interesting weekend there, one way or another.

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She really needs money now and his toothless grin ain't gonna supply it.

My money is on her trying to play some old dood for cash while Snagglepuss has to watch in the wings.


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Good thing Santa is bringing them coal for Christmas. They'll need it to keep warm when they're snowed in.

Good to see that Karma is a bus for all seasons.

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I am so glad for you, wonder who she will take that out on?! Can't wait until the Karma bus visits my WH! She will sure be ranting and raving and cussing up a storm and you won't be around but we all know who will and he will be getting the end of this or he will be doing it to her and things are not going to look so pretty anymore. Yahoo!

She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.


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She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.
Ain't it GREAT to FEEL the LOVE in her voice.



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She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.

I must be missing something here. You've been divorced 6 months today. What exactly does she expect you to do? Or is she blaming you for the weather...which is actually Al Gore's fault! Maybe she should call him.MrRollieEyes

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She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.

I must be missing something here. You've been divorced 6 months today. What exactly does she expect you to do? Or is she blaming you for the weather...which is actually Al Gore's fault! Maybe she should call him.MrRollieEyes

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No, she's mad that I didn't pay for the tractor that she's using for her "business". Typical Wayward entitlement.


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Thanks for the visual and laugh.

The romance/fantasy is over and now reality is smacking her in the rear.

Make me appreciate my FWH outside working on adding plow to tractor for snow storm.

Gg



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Oh, I get it. Ex-husbands, who have been betrayed by an adulterous wife, should ALWAYS pay more than the court orders them to pay...and especially for community property that has been co-opted by the wayward to benefit her affair lifestyle. That makes perfect sense. It just needed the proper explanation. crazy

And you know, PSUBIKER, if I understand the MB lexicon correctly (without having made a detailed study of it), an ex-WW is someone who is ex-wayward, not someone who is an ex-wife. She can't possible be an XWW if that middle W is still active. As much as it has hurt you at the time, and however much it still hurts now, I still think you dodged a pretty big bullet "losing" this one.

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.

Holy carp! shocked
Do you think it's possible she ain't happy? wink

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Do you think it's possible she ain't happy? wink

Nah, Pep. You're reading, with WAY too much subtlety, between the lines! 'Tis the season to be jolly.MrRollieEyes

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P.S. And, apparently, snowbound. :MerryChristmas:

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Wow. I wonder what you, her EX (read that again...EX) husband, is supposed to do?

BTW, this Nor'Easter is predicted to be a "heart-attack" maker: heavy, wet snow, not the dry powdery stuff that is easily shoveled.

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PSU:

It's funny that nobody knows the schedule of the Karmabus and when it's coming round, but it's good to see it when it gets to where it is going!

I have a feeling that, in your XWW's sitch, that Karma is about to back up and go forward a few more times with your Alimony case coming up, and the waiting on the judge's custody decision.

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She's called me 60+ times over the last three days. I have an hour's worth of screaming voicemails from her.

You know my sitch, and that I went through a similar thing recently, but it still amazes me that WW's can somehow find a way to place blame on the BH.



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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
- she's in the bullseye of the Nor'Easter this weekend and is forcast to get two feet of snow at her house!

You have the kids this weekend, right?

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
- she's in the bullseye of the Nor'Easter this weekend and is forcast to get two feet of snow at her house!

You have the kids this weekend, right?

Heck Yeah!!I get to sit in, work on DS7's school project, drink hot coco, all the while we watch the maintenance guys at our complex shovel the snow.


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Somebody's gotta feed and water them horses.

No tractor = no hay.

I see horses being sold off in the near future.

You know, the mere rumor of OM being a pedophile would cause many a parent to remove their daughters from riding lessons.


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