Tell him, tell him about this site, and tell him about Surviving an Affair.
Then, feel VERY GOOD about what you've done, and step away.

The earlier a BS knows about a WS the better. I found out about my WW's EA very early on, and I believe that it helped to end it.

He needs to know so he can act


Me: BH 60 - Married 21 years
ExW had an EA beginning 09/09 (Facebook)
After a few false recoveries, I filed for D 05/11
D final 03/12

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