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Merry Christmas to everyone here at MB.

I hope that despite the complications and pain that infidelity has caused in our lives, whether you be a BS or a WS that the new year will bring us all healing and a better life for our coming up New Year.

May we all be thankful for the things that we do have.

Again, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone and many thanks to all for the support and advice that is given here.

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:HappyHolidays:


:MerryChristmas:


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
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Plan B

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Originally Posted by StillDawn
Again, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to everyone and many thanks to all for the support and advice that is given here.

SD,

I couldn't have said it any better than that.

I know how thankful I am for this place, and for the tirelsss efforts of so many kind and considerate people.

Wishing you all the very best this holiday season.

TB



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I feel exactly the same way TB...this place has been a life saver for me this past year--

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I would like to echo Merry Christmas.

I too am so appreciative of those that take the time and effort to make a difference in peoples lives. I appreciate this place as a refuge. When I thought I could not go on because it hurt so bad I was able to get the encouragement, clarification, and the benefit of the insight of the community here.

Thank you and God Bless

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Merry Christmas to all-a y'all, as we say in Texas (even though I live in AZ now on the Island of Misfit Toys.)

I am also grateful to this place. I've been here a long time. I'd be even worse off without it. Hard to imagine, I know, but true!

I will try to check in over Christmas Eve/Christmas Day and talk to anyone who might need it (hey, I does what I can).
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WH cheated in corporate workplace for many years. He moved out and filed in summer 2008.
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Mulan,
I was in AZ in Oct. It's beautiful and you got some nice lookin men out there (not that I was looking :)).

To All,
Have a wonderful holiday. I'm off the rest of the week and plan to enjoy family time.

Gg


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D-Day #2 1/27/12
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A Merry Christmas to everyone

:MerryChristmas:



BS:35(me)
WH:32
DS 12/8
OW1: 2004 EA/PA?
ILYBNILWY 4/09
OW2 2008/2009 EA/PA?
Separated: 06/14/09
D-Day: OW3 PA 06/20/09
Am I married to a Serial Cheater?
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testing

:MerryChristmas:

It worked!!


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I'm holding off on my holiday wishes until I'm actually on holiday (I'm working today and tomorrow, too).


Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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Merry Christmas to everyone here - Marriage Builders has been a life saver for me. I think I would just be a puddle somewhere or cowering in a corner without you all. God Bless each and every one of you. You are all very special people to take the time to help those in need whom you do not even know. I cannot think of a better example of charity and love than the people on this board.

Also, Happy Hanukkah to all my Jewish MB friends and Happy Holidays to those of you who celebrate something other than Christmas or Hanukkah.

:HappyHolidays: :MerryChristmas: :happyhanukkah:


BW (me - 45)
WH - 45
2 DDs
Married 20 years, together 25
DDay Spring 2009
WH moves out Summer 2009 and in with OW
Plan A - 4 months
Very dark Plan B Fall 2009
WH files D Summer 2010
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I gave myself two Christmas presents today. I ordered His Needs, Her Needs and Love Busters from the MB bookstore.

No matter how my current situation works out, I'll be smarter and better prepared moving on...



Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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Christmas greetings to everybody and thank you Stilldawn for starting the thread.

Tomorrow I will be less here and focusing on family preparations.

May Christ be in your Christmas!


But I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams -Yeats

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