SMB
but WE won the war�
me, my husband, and our children.
Thanks for the beautiful post. It really helps to remind ourselves of the end result and to not be too stuck in the past.
Even if OW had my H for a fleeting moment what matters is where he is today and not where he was then.
I sort of see it as we were growing a garden and unknowingly neglected it which allowed the weeds to pop up and begin to destroy our garden. Now we are back on track watering and fertilizing the garden so we can both enjoy this marriage and life journey we are creating together.
She still has no idea what it feels like to be loved by my husband.
She�s never looked into his eyes and seen his soul.
She will never have a hint of the bond we have shared for 25 years.
No one will ever have the memories of the 16 years we have together. Like you I refused to lay down and share. Before I even found MB I sort of immediately demanded NC and a complete and unwavering commitment towards fixing our Marriage.
I am thankful that I insisted on that and thankful that my DH follwed thru with it immediately. I think it saved both our lives and not the mention our kids lives.
Today we are doing the best we can to keep our garden healthy, planting new seeds when ever we can and keeping an open eye towards the health of our marrige. Its not all rosy and blooming everyday but we have come a long way from the wilted mess we found ourselves in.
Best wished for 2010 to you and your H and hope that your garden continues to grow and blossom.
