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It was the first year that I didn't even think about dday,(original dday 2001) actually I couldn't remember the date I had to think about it My point?
No matter how impossible it seems at times that things will ever be repaired it can 2 people willing.
The triggers can fade and eventually be gone or fade into irrelevancy
Your marriage can be salvaged and actually be better than you've ever imagined
Communication Communication Communication
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Dday 2001 Me: BH-49 WW-44 Married 20 years
Recovered after years of hard work and above all...Honesty. It's been years since I've been here but I'm still finding it therapeutic.
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Thanks for this post, O_H. It was timely since out D-day was just yesterday. It is so good to know that there will be a time when the A is not front and center in our lives.
ME: 45 FBS FWH: GloveOil 43 D-Day 1/7/09 (A: 10/08-1/09) DD: 16 DS: 12 Married: 19 years In love for 24+ years and counting!
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Thanks for this post, O_H. It was timely since out D-day was just yesterday. It is so good to know that there will be a time when the A is not front and center in our lives. Oh yes I remember the anxiety that my wife and use to feel as the date approached. I would be tense and not all there but talking about it rather than stuffing it away made all the difference.
Dday 2001 Me: BH-49 WW-44 Married 20 years
Recovered after years of hard work and above all...Honesty. It's been years since I've been here but I'm still finding it therapeutic.
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