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#2300996 01/07/10 05:49 PM
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So I won't T/J on that "other" thread... you posted this:

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The problem my friend is this site is predicated on HONEST MARRIAGES, not AFFARIAGES, yes it was a long time ago, but the principles employed here run counter to the foundation of your relationship? In reality, even biblically, you are not married to this woman. You are in a really long term affair and should unwind it legally and go back to your original wife. That why I said you are f'd. You don't have a real marriage and I think you know this. You have a really long inappropriate relationship. I'm outta here. DUDE


Is this really our DUDE? I'm speechless... and smiling. My level of respect for you just went up a notch. Way to tell it like it is.

clap clap

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Originally Posted by princessmeggy
So I won't T/J on that "other" thread... you posted this:

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The problem my friend is this site is predicated on HONEST MARRIAGES, not AFFARIAGES, yes it was a long time ago, but the principles employed here run counter to the foundation of your relationship? In reality, even biblically, you are not married to this woman. You are in a really long term affair and should unwind it legally and go back to your original wife. That why I said you are f'd. You don't have a real marriage and I think you know this. You have a really long inappropriate relationship. I'm outta here. DUDE


Is this really our DUDE? I'm speechless... and smiling. My level of respect for you just went up a notch. Way to tell it like it is.

clap clap


Thanks! I hate it cuz I've come to some conclusions lately that are earth moving...WHAT A LIFE! DUDE

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With an open heart,

The true Light will sometimes filter in!!!!

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Awww, Dude, are your MB buddies rubbing off on ya?


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Thanks! I hate it cuz I've come to some conclusions lately that are earth moving...WHAT A LIFE! DUDE

Dude I think someone has hacked your account and or is using a duplicate name. LOL

OK DUDE so please illuminate me to what has happened to shift your thinking. I have always appreciated how open you have been and I am interested to understand what could have happened to change your line of thinking.

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Originally Posted by Dude007
Originally Posted by princessmeggy
So I won't T/J on that "other" thread... you posted this:

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The problem my friend is this site is predicated on HONEST MARRIAGES, not AFFARIAGES, yes it was a long time ago, but the principles employed here run counter to the foundation of your relationship? In reality, even biblically, you are not married to this woman. You are in a really long term affair and should unwind it legally and go back to your original wife. That why I said you are f'd. You don't have a real marriage and I think you know this. You have a really long inappropriate relationship. I'm outta here. DUDE


Is this really our DUDE? I'm speechless... and smiling. My level of respect for you just went up a notch. Way to tell it like it is.

clap clap


Thanks! I hate it cuz I've come to some conclusions lately that are earth moving...WHAT A LIFE! DUDE

That's what happens when you don the red cape, buddy-boy.

Way to go! hurray


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There's a song called "hey Dude".


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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
That's what happens when you don the red cape, buddy-boy.

Way to go! hurray

Dude just wanted to don the tights! laugh


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Originally Posted by MrsWondering
It's a bird, it's a plane...No, it's...SUPERDUDE~~~> [Linked Image from i222.photobucket.com]

Mrs. W [Linked Image from i222.photobucket.com]


Mwahahahah... rotflmao


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I have to get some new smilies like you and Ms. Lane.

Don't drop the "E" off your name Dude or you will stall and crash lol.


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Originally Posted by black_raven
Originally Posted by Dealan-de
That's what happens when you don the red cape, buddy-boy.

Way to go! hurray

Dude just wanted to don the tights! laugh

Whats really scary, I think I should have plan B'd my first wife, but I didn't. I moved on rather quickly after we split. I think she was wayward although hadn't officially had an A. I think had I plan B'd til she "found herself" I could have saved my first marriage, but rather I took her lunacy as an "out". Then I rebounded and married someone totally opposite of her, who then cheated. I think I did the out thing again this second time round to engage in my own MLC. WHAT A LIFE!! DUDE

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Originally Posted by black_raven
Originally Posted by Dealan-de
That's what happens when you don the red cape, buddy-boy.

Way to go! hurray

Dude just wanted to don the tights! laugh

Well they look smashing on him.

And not at all gay or anything.

rotflmao


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

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I've come to some conclusions lately that are earth moving



That happened to me recently too but it turned out to be my breakfast burrito.



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Originally Posted by MrsWondering
It's a bird, it's a plane...No, it's...SUPERDUDE~~~> [Linked Image from i222.photobucket.com]

Mrs. W [Linked Image from i222.photobucket.com]

rotflmao rotflmao


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Originally Posted by chrisner
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I've come to some conclusions lately that are earth moving



That happened to me recently too but it turned out to be my breakfast burrito.

Evacuate!


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Did I mention i'm a HOT superman?! DUDE

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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
Originally Posted by black_raven
Originally Posted by Dealan-de
That's what happens when you don the red cape, buddy-boy.

Way to go! hurray

Dude just wanted to don the tights! laugh

Well they look smashing on him.

And not at all gay or anything.

rotflmao

It's Dude...he will find a way. rotflmao

Have a good day Dude!!


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Originally Posted by Dude007
Did I mention i'm a HOT superman?! DUDE

Sez yer wife...

(snort)


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O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten.

My Story

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What's up w/ my PEEPS??? HAPPY FRIDAY TO ALL!!! Go COWBOYS! Sorry to all the Texas fans...DUDE

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