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Perhaps you should consider us as you do medication for the illness YOU TOLD US you'd already been diagnosed with and AVOID US.

Back to OZ.

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p.s. - I AM a doctor


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and I was accused of being delusional

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Originally Posted by bingo
i am not double posting, how dare you. and my wife is asleep.
shame on you. Go see your FWW and have some fun.
Why are you baiting people? This accomplishes nothing.

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i was diagnosed with that 5 years ago by a therapist but have since sought other advice and been told that alcohol may have played a part and until clean for a long period of time would avoid medication. That is what I am doing.
The valium is for sleep only and I take 5mg a day if I cannot sleep.
what on earth is your issue. As I said, are you a doctor ?

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I am not baiting anyone. I have been accused of something I did not do. Thats all. I am within my rights to reply

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Originally Posted by princessmeggy
I have this feeling that we've been played. skeptical

Bi-polars have a way of making you feel like that.

He won't stop until we do, he gets bored or distracted. Although, most unmedicated cycling bi-polars won't handle discussing their mental illness for long. Once they figure out they can't "hide it" nor deny it...they move on deluding themselves with their own pompousity and ability to "handle"/"control" whatever it is that ails their racing mind ["we" the little people of the world couldn't begin to understand]. If you've ever seen people high on cocaine...that's how GOOD and OMNIPOTENT he thinks he feels right now. Mania can be intoxicating...ESPECIALLY WITH AN AUDIENCE.

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me wondering, I am very familiar with the culture in the u.k. and sometimes even use the word "bloody" too much time in the pub. but I assure you I live in the u.s. cant speak for someone who uses different spelling for grey , or gray . we often slip into some vernacular which may or may not represent where we live.

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also dr wondering my father killed himself 6 years ago and we were the best friends in the world. I was unsure at the time whether that might no have a bearing and unwilling to take medication for something that could just as easilly have been grief

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thanks chaumont. I get the impression that some here wish doom

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Notice how the first word of each post for both posters is lower case? Where is Schoolbus when you need her? I bet she'd confirm it as well.


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***EDIT****** please don't contribute if you don't like me or what I have done. There is such a thing as milder versions of bi-polar. I am not doing this for an audience. Please leave

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Flambeau. I agree, which is why I came here to avoid bringing it up at home. I did indeed marry her warts and all as she did me. Forgetting is the difficulty, not forgiving. That I think perhaps takes a little more time than I had bargained for. But in essence you are right. I should let it lie. It was nothing really,and I am exaggerating it in my head for no good reason.

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This poster is a unmedicated bi-polar. He won't learn anything here and will continue on with this thread until he gets bored and moves on to the next thing his racing mind attaches to. I suggest we all TRY to stop beating our heads against the wall as there is NO WINNING AN ARGUMENT and NO RATIONAL DISCUSSION to be had with a mentally ill unmedicated cycling bi-polar. Whereas some people don't get it and don't get that they don't get it...this guy doesn't get it and CAN'T until his underlying mental condition is addressed and treated.


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oh , my god, you really think I am double posting. I came for help not for the witch hunt I stated was going on earlier.
Why would I double post. It would achieve nothing.

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you are not a doctor !!!!!

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leave wondering. You are seriously out of order. You have not met me, my wife or been my doctor. ********EDIT************

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Yup its the forgetting that brought me here. I am sure with time it must go, but this is new to me and i thought, that some insight here would help. instead, I got blasted from every angle about things unrelated to why I came in the first place.

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