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I am not married yet. But wish to get married in near future. I would like to know how important is the physical compatibility ( height, weight) between partner? Does a greater difference between heights (like more than 1 feet)matter a lot for an effective and enjoyable sexual relationship? If your partner is just double of your size (weight)with a good physique, is there any possibility of not having a good sexual life?

Guys, what do you think?

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Originally Posted by neelanjana
I am not married yet. But wish to get married in near future. I would like to know how important is the physical compatibility ( height, weight) between partner? Does a greater difference between heights (like more than 1 feet)matter a lot for an effective and enjoyable sexual relationship? If your partner is just double of your size (weight)with a good physique, is there any possibility of not having a good sexual life?

Guys, what do you think?

I have never found physical differences to be of any consequence. What is most important is how I FEEL about that person. That is the key to an enjoyable, satisfying sexual life.


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Neelanjana, I'm not sure what "physical compatibility" is. My father was six feet tall and my mother 5'1". He towered over her, but yet they danced together smoothly and never looked out of place.

I also know couples who are completely different in appearance. I know one where the wife is extremely overweight and the husband as thin as a rail. And they are madly in love with one another.

Putting a restriction on "physical compatibility," whatever that may mean is, I think, putting a limit on one's own ability to look beyond the superficial and into the soul.


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Thank you guys for your thoughtful replies......


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