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Re: A new perspective Still_Crazy #2304031 01/12/10 08:13 PM
Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 2,033 SoCalNoCo K krusht Member
krusht Member K Joined: Jul 2004 Posts: 2,033 SoCalNoCo	How about when you see a woman drive by with a kid in the backseat, talking on the cell phone. I just know she is talking to her OM lover. Or I see a man and woman park next to each other then one get into the other car.... Someone tells me his son in law of a 20 year marriage tells his daughter he doesn't want to be married anymore, I tell the guy definitely look for another woman.. Like when my son was hit by the car and had TBI (traumatic brain injury) I learned way way too much information about brain injuries, recoveries, therapies, etc. Just like we learn way too much in MB. kirk CORDUROY PILLOWS ARE MAKING HEADLINES!!

Re: A new perspective Justlooking24 #2304034 01/12/10 08:18 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 7,464 Sydney, Australia B bigkahuna Member
bigkahuna Member B Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 7,464 Sydney, Australia	Originally Posted by Justlooking24 A friend whose wife spends an hour a day drinking coffee and "discussing" that days plans for their house remodel with their male contractor while husband is at work. This couple is a strong Christian couple. My wife's affair started like this except it was the next-door-neighbour Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW) D-Day August 2005 Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23 Empty Nesters. Fully Recovered.

Re: A new perspective bigkahuna #2304202 01/13/10 10:04 AM
Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305 S Still_Crazy Member
Still_Crazy Member S Joined: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,305	Originally Posted by bigkahuna Originally Posted by Justlooking24 A friend whose wife spends an hour a day drinking coffee and "discussing" that days plans for their house remodel with their male contractor while husband is at work. This couple is a strong Christian couple. My wife's affair started like this except it was the next-door-neighbour And why it is so important for people to understand that this is a boundary that should not be crossed......

Re: A new perspective Still_Crazy #2304236 01/13/10 11:05 AM
Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 335 J Justlooking24 Member
Justlooking24 Member J Joined: Sep 2008 Posts: 335	Originally Posted by Still_Crazy Originally Posted by bigkahuna Originally Posted by Justlooking24 A friend whose wife spends an hour a day drinking coffee and "discussing" that days plans for their house remodel with their male contractor while husband is at work. This couple is a strong Christian couple. My wife's affair started like this except it was the next-door-neighbour And why it is so important for people to understand that this is a boundary that should not be crossed...... Weekly I am asked if I have Facebook. When I explain that my wife and I have decided not to have social network sites as boundaries in our marriage we are looked at like snake waving zealots. BH: 46 FWW: 44 3 DD: 20,17,11 Married 24 years PA/EA: 5/08 DDay: 6/08 NC: 8/08 Previous EA 1998 confessed 8/08 In Recovery

Re: A new perspective Justlooking24 #2304250 01/13/10 11:27 AM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,888 Darwin's waiting room F Fred_in_VA Member
Fred_in_VA Member F Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 2,888 Darwin's waiting room	Originally Posted by Justlooking24 Weekly I am asked if I have Facebook. When I explain that my wife and I have decided not to have social network sites as boundaries in our marriage we are looked at like snake waving zealots. Years ago, A.A. taught me an important (one of many) lesson: "It's none of my gd*** business what other people think of me!" Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words. St. Francis of Assissi

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