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I always love reading Princess Meg's take on the court proceedings.
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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
>I've had doubts for several years about the size of her brain pan.

The SIZE of the pan isn't the problem...it's whether there are brains IN said pan...
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Unfortunately, she would need a skilled proctologist to find her brain!!!

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We could refer her to the doc, spelunkers, map, and crowbars I used to assist the Wookie...



I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Originally Posted by MrWondering
Seriously, the more I hear the more I worry about your safety.

Mr. W

I second this.



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"spelunkers, map, and crowbars"

I would never send no man nor beast on such a journey. Unless they have a Hobbit and a wizard with them.

TheRoad #2302140 01/09/10 10:46 AM
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You mean a wizard, four hobbits, two men, an elf and a dwarf!


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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Here's one of the biggest things I have learned about the WS-topic both here and IRL:


"You just can't fix STUPID"


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Secret LTA w/ thrice married OM at her workplace; EA/PA starts ~ 2005-6
Files & completes D - 2007, OM/OMW#3 D - 2007, Affairage - immediately thereafter
Disappears in 2006 w/o even a goodbye to anyone, Never a paragraph of real truth ever spoken
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M "for life", Suspicions (denied) & desperate Plan A latter-half '06
1st D-day 1/07, full truth D-day 7/08 (all via 3rd parties)
NC w/ xWW 8/08-date, better off w/o unrepentant vileness, betrayal, & rampant deceit in my life anymore
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tick tick tick.....did she produce the documents?

Time is up right? End of business on the 11th?

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Yeah what's up PSU? Is the alimony dismissed?

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Originally Posted by Tabby1
Yeah what's up PSU? Is the alimony dismissed?

I filed a motion today to dismiss alimony. No docs, hopefully the judge will dismiss. While I am very confident that I would win the trial for alimony, it would be much simpler if it's dismissed outright. She has 10 days to answer, so I should hear something around the 25th.





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Originally Posted by ManInMotion
Originally Posted by MrWondering
Seriously, the more I hear the more I worry about your safety.

Mr. W

I second this.

I third this. Stupid people like your WxW and POSOM usually resort to violence when they can't get what they want through other means. When their case falls apart in court, I have a bad feeling things are going to get REALLY ugly. While you can sic the law on them if they attempt to hurt you, this also assumes you survive said attempt.

Usually the police only get there in time to draw the chalk outline around the body. If I were you I'd really follow Mr. W's suggestion and look into a concealed weapons permit AND weapon.


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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
While I am very confident that I would win the trial for alimony, it would be much simpler if it's dismissed outright.

OTOH, if you go to trial, it would give the Karma Bus one more opportunity to roll over your XWW...


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More waiting....

But don't you have something on the 15th as well?

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Originally Posted by Tabby1
More waiting....

But don't you have something on the 15th as well?

Yes I do. It is a contempt hearing for failure to pay attorney fees from the false DV charge.


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Boy, she just keeps piling it on herself, doesn't she?

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Originally Posted by thndrnltng
Boy, she just keeps piling it on herself, doesn't she?

tl

But, T&L, as you know... "IT'S ALL PSU's FAULT!" So, she doesn't YET feel the weight...

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Went to court today, the hearing was stayed. She filed for bankruptcy yesterday so there's an injunction on all financial matters until her bankruptcy is discharged. Not a biggie - the original hearing date for alimony was stayed while my bankruptcy was in process during the early fall.


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Is it wrong of me to hope her broom crashes into a moutain on the way home?

Oh.

Yeah.

Okay then.


I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?

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Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
Went to court today, the hearing was stayed. She filed for bankruptcy yesterday so there's an injunction on all financial matters until her bankruptcy is discharged.

So she's not so stupid after all...



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Originally Posted by ManInMotion
Originally Posted by PSUBIKER
Went to court today, the hearing was stayed. She filed for bankruptcy yesterday so there's an injunction on all financial matters until her bankruptcy is discharged.

So she's not so stupid after all...

I have no idea how she paid for it - my attorney fees for the bankruptcy was money well spent. The paperwork is a BEAR. If she did it herself, I can see it being dragged out for a LONG time.


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