Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum

This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at mbrestored@gmail.com
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
#2307147 01/18/10 11:54 AM
Joined: Dec 2009
Posts: 135
W
Member
Member
W Offline
Joined: Dec 2009
Posts: 135
Ok guys, here's the scoop. I can't really be in NC with my stbXWH because of the finances. Communication with him is painful, and frankly he's being kind of a pr!ck.

Fred_in_VA suggested to ask here and see if anyone can help me.

I haven't filed yet, but am planning to see a financial advisor friend of mine and see if I can't swipe some equity out of the house to pay for my lawyer. This will leave him scrambling, but it will also MAKE him keep paying bills, fixing up the place, etc. It needs to be on the books right away.
Comments, suggestions? Volunteers?


Wolf, not Cougar
Why wolf? Wolves mate for life.
BW-40 WH-38 M 18 years, together 21
Bomb drop 10/13/2008. EA +some physical, plus disclosure of long term porn addiction and "gaslighting" campaign to isolate me from our social circle
2 False recoveries 10/22/2008 and 2/10/2009. Separated since 10/5/2009 when he refused to get treatment for his binge drinking. Divorce final October 2010.
Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,549
Likes: 10
S
Member
Member
S Offline
Joined: Sep 2008
Posts: 9,549
Likes: 10
More people will read this if you move the thread to Surviving an Affair. Click the "notify" button and ask the moderator to move it there. Good luck.


BW
Married 1989
His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.

Moderated by  Fordude 

Link Copied to Clipboard
Forum Search
Who's Online Now
0 members (), 811 guests, and 55 robots.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Gocroswell, Allen Inverson, Logan bauer, Karan Jyotish, sofia sassy
72,024 Registered Users
Latest Posts
How important is it to get the whole story?
by leemc - 07/18/25 10:58 AM
Following Ex-Wifes Nursing Schedule?
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:21 AM
My wife wants a separation
by Roger Beach - 07/16/25 04:20 AM
Spying husband arrested
by coooper - 06/24/25 09:19 AM
Forum Statistics
Forums67
Topics133,624
Posts2,323,518
Members72,024
Most Online6,102
Jul 3rd, 2025
Building Marriages That Last A Lifetime
Copyright © 2025, Marriage Builders, Inc. All Rights Reserved.
Site Navigation
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 8.0.0