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Why does a WW do things she would never do with her OM, things that she never would do with her BH before the affair, Then not do them for her BH after the affair?
Then why can't they understand why their BH wants them to do it with them now?
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The same could be said for WH's.
He did many things for his FOW that he still has not done for me.....
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Why does a WW do things she would never do with her OM, things that she never would do with her BH before the affair, Then not do them for her BH after the affair?
Then why can't they understand why their BH wants them to do it with them now? Both wayward genders are in the MADNESS. WH's buy their OW jewlery, flaunt them around town, etc. WWs do things sexually they might not have done for their BH. I think its just all part of the madness and the fantasy land. They probably say a bunch of BS they'd never say to their spouse. I asked my OW to send me a nude photo of her to my phone. I'd never ask my W to do that..I'm speaking from having seen both side...DUDE
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Because what they have with OM is "special" and we are undeserving of that attention.
By giving you that attention, she remembers how much better it was with OM, then she will pine for him.
Women are such vicious creatures.
I watch, and am as a sparrow alone upon the house top.
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One is called "RESPECT" and the other is called "EVIL ABONDONMENT"
Depends on what you would really rather have?
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TheRoad --
I assume you are talking about sex.
I know that I got to be someone "new" in the affair.
That means that I was more aggressive both verbally and physically and less inhibited than I was with H. Because I was uncomfortable bringing those things up with H. H had this "good girl" image of me. OM had the opposite.
There's more, but I'll read up on your sich first.
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Ditto for me too. I've done FAR more with my H and FAR more often than ever happened with the OM.
I was quite the opposite to Lexxxy. I was inhibited and embarrassed with the OM. The trust between my H and I meant/means we can do ANYTHING (and I assure you we do).
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You assumed correct. I assumed you recovered. How did BH react to knowing how you were different with the OM?
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TheRoad --
Not recovered. Divorced.
Can I ask -- where is your story?
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Women are such vicious creatures. 
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Well, I never got even a small percentage of the extent of Wayzilla and Gollums�s fluid swapping tales but I certainly had my suspicions and some evidence of what all he could get her to do.
On the other hand if she even stopped reading her paperback book during sex he was getting more than me in the final couple years.
�Eggshell White. I think I�ll paint the ceiling Eggshell White.�
Testosterone boys! Testosterone! It ain’t just for nose, ear and back hair anymore!
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Chrisner, Beige, the ceiling should be beige.  JL
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I came here many, many, years after. I have never posted my story as such. From time to time I have revealed a little of why I'm here. I have never gotten the whole story.
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"�Eggshell White. I think I�ll paint the ceiling Eggshell White.� Am I assuming she said this while on her back with you.  All I can say is 
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The same could be said for WH's. Hmm... I'm suddenly reminded of a scene from The Sopranos where Tony Soprano was asked why he would allow his OW, but not his W, to perform a BJ on him, and his response was along the lines of "Are you crazy? Those are the same lips that kiss my kids."
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Because what they have with OM is "special" and we are undeserving of that attention.
By giving you that attention, she remembers how much better it was with OM, then she will pine for him.
Women are such vicious creatures. Yeppers!
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Maybe it is because their husbands don't appreciate them or anything they do.  That does not make them any less guilty of waywardness. And, it could be true of WHs, also. I was the BW so I have never been 'in the head' of a wayward spouse. I'm just thinking.
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This topic has been discussed before: What can the BS expect from the "goodies" the OP received? I think the fact that the WS is "intoxicated" must be taken into account. But I do realize that the symbolic value of refusing the BS after eagerly giving to the OP is huge.
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