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#2307567 01/19/10 04:37 PM
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I guess you make God mad beaten up on Dude and he takes your servers down. WOW!

DUDE

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Dude, I wonder what it feels like to live in such an egocentric universe?


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BH and I are raising my OC together.
Dude007 #2307570 01/19/10 04:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Dude007
I guess you make God mad beaten up on Dude and he takes your servers down. WOW!

rotflmao


VERY HAPPY! FBS/FWS; 47yo; M-29 yrs.; DS-26,DD-21; our affairs: 1990-'96
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Originally Posted by writer1
Dude, I wonder what it feels like to live in such an egocentric universe?

You know, the hardest part is keeping up w/ the newest hairstyle trends. You have no idea how much pressure is on us trophy husbands...DUDE

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This server is about as stable as a bipolar ADD teenager on crack...

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Originally Posted by Mark1952
This server is about as stable as a bipolar ADD teenager on crack...

I think you're giving the server far too much credit.


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Originally Posted by Dude007
Originally Posted by writer1
Dude, I wonder what it feels like to live in such an egocentric universe?

You know, the hardest part is keeping up w/ the newest hairstyle trends. You have no idea how much pressure is on us trophy husbands...DUDE

There are hairstyle trends for men? Who knew.


Me: BS/FWW: 48
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BH and I are raising my OC together.
Dude007 #2307597 01/19/10 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Dude007
I guess you make God mad beaten up on Dude and he takes your servers down. WOW!

DUDE

rotflmao


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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I would be happy to trade consulting on making the server high availability and properly sized for traffic in exchange for counseling sessions with the Harleys...


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Originally Posted by bitbucket
I would be happy to trade consulting on making the server high availability and properly sized for traffic in exchange for counseling sessions with the Harleys...

You'd have better luck patroling the viscious, mean spirited people on here from posting against DUDE. I am one of the chosen ones...He will crash the server again if they piss him off..DUDE

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dude:

Don't you have a tax return to do or something?

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Glad to know no access was Dude's fault. I thought perhaps I had been blocked from membership for evil thoughts......

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HEY LLL? How you doing? DUDE

Dude007 #2307669 01/19/10 06:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Dude007
HEY LLL? How you doing? DUDE

Can you possibly be any more obvious?

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Originally Posted by ImStaying
Originally Posted by Dude007
HEY LLL? How you doing? DUDE

Can you possibly be any more obvious?

WHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT???????????!!!!!!

DUDE

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I'm surviving and waiting for the PI to turn up something....

H actually came home last night and tried to be civil.....why? I was neutral....best I can do while having thoughts of hiring a hit man.

I'm checking my computer tonight....dawned on me that he might bug me! Barbicat is making me paranoid. So far everything I've done regarding attorney, PI, etc. has all been done from office where he'd have a hard time getting info from. Nothing's being kept on computer and all previous records are in a safety deposit box in an un-named location. I feel like I'm living in a bad TV series.

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Originally Posted by ladylonglegs
I'm surviving and waiting for the PI to turn up something....

H actually came home last night and tried to be civil.....why? I was neutral....best I can do while having thoughts of hiring a hit man.

I'm checking my computer tonight....dawned on me that he might bug me! Barbicat is making me paranoid. So far everything I've done regarding attorney, PI, etc. has all been done from office where he'd have a hard time getting info from. Nothing's being kept on computer and all previous records are in a safety deposit box in an un-named location. I feel like I'm living in a bad TV series.

Most waywards are SO INTO THEIR A, they have no idea whats going on around them. Use this to your favor. Start asking him for boat loads of cash each week. Maybe he is so guilt ridden he'll just hand it to you, no questions asked..DUDE

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If I asked him for cash his antenae would go up bigtime. I NEVER ask him for cash....in the past if we had agreed on big purchases we each paid half.....otherwise I always bought what I wanted when I wanted without consulting him.

My only hope for anything other than 50/50 is a private settlement contract where I get the houses, the dogs and the cars. Frankly, the dogs are the highest priority on my list....if I lose custody of them it'd kill me.....they're my babies....I know....achilles heel and H knows that.

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Originally Posted by ladylonglegs
Glad to know no access was Dude's fault. I thought perhaps I had been blocked from membership for evil thoughts......
I'm glad it was Dude's fault too. I though my work had caught on to how much time I've spent here and blocked it!!

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Hey,I just read this, and I am offended by that bipolar comment because we bipolars are lots of fun and we have lots of energy and we can talk without taking a breath and we don't have to sleep much and we write great poetry and we run around alot and we see lots of prety colors and we don't use punctuaton and.....and.....

CRASH! Now, MY server is down!

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