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Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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I believe that she is right. Forgiving someone is the greatest gift that you can give to yourself. In reading posts by the many varied people that post on this site, I see the most awesome personal growth in those that have truly forgiven.
God's Blessings,
Say
Me, BW-57
FWH 54
4 kids and 4 grandbabies between us
In recovery since D-day, May 28,2007
FWH never onboard the MB boat but still clinging to the side.
One day at a time by God's grace.
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Yeah, she definitely made the right decision for her son...very sad.
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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I agree she made the right decision. When I saw this article, I noticed there was no mention of an affair, merely that his personality changed. It seems to me as if real life came crashing in on this man sooner than he had planned.
My DD36's father died two and a half years ago. I never interfered with their relationship, always supported her seeing him, and never spoke about him in negative terms. When he died, DD36 said this about her father. "He was a S@#t, but he was her father and she loved him".
AM
BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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