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Oh, thats right, you've only been on here TEN YEARS??! OMG..DUDE
You'll never know.
Yeah, "salvage". That is about right, IMO.
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Depends on how one defines "victorious". For me, an untainted one is the only one that qulaifies as "victorious". But, that's just me.
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And you know this because?????? I am a FWW...One who thought exactly like you and Zelmo prior to my foray into waywardism... Now I know better...I wasn't able to place myself into temptation's way and rely on will power...That was a fool's mission... Are you and Zelmo both saying you COULD place yourselves into a tempting scenario and that your will power and morals would protect you? Mrs. W I am saying I would not put myself there in the first place. That is where we are different, IMO.
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Oh, thats right, you've only been on here TEN YEARS??! OMG..DUDE
You'll never know.
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Are you saying you think every marriage tainted by infidelity ought to end in divorce, in your opinion? I believe he is saying he is above such a marriage. Recovery is not something he would ever be interested in. And does not understand why anyone would lower themselves to the point of recovering an M that was tainted by an A Is that about right Z?
Me 34
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Abandoned Feb 17th 08, D-Day Aprl 27th 08.
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The FOG is clear, and we are in recovery.
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And you know this because?????? I am a FWW...One who thought exactly like you and Zelmo prior to my foray into waywardism... Now I know better...I wasn't able to place myself into temptation's way and rely on will power...That was a fool's mission... Are you and Zelmo both saying you COULD place yourselves into a tempting scenario and that your will power and morals would protect you? Mrs. W I am saying I would not put myself there in the first place. That is where we are different, IMO. *edit*
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MARRIAGE BUILDING DONE HERE Maybe some of you 'ol vets will get done building and to the maintaining stage so the servers don't keep crashing on us yunguns. DUDE
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Can you say you have experienced/lived a wonderful marriage recovery after infidelity?
I can. 
Is that not the purpose of this site?
Not according to the preamble. It's a discussion forum with room for dissent.
I can say that I am not in a marriage with someone that cheated. Can you?
MARRIAGE BUILDERS
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Depends on how one defines "victorious". For me, an untainted one is the only one that qulaifies as "victorious". But, that's just me. No, just any that I am involved in.
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Depends on how one defines "victorious". For me, an untainted one is the only one that qulaifies as "victorious". But, that's just me. No, just any that I am involved in. I think that's a very healthy response for what you've endured.
I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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The site is not just for Ms affected by infidelity. In an ideal world, yes. But the reality is As happen. Should every BS go with Plan D, no and ifs or buts?
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BW - me
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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I'm so sorry, DW. I know it hurts so badly right now. I DO remember how it was.
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I never had to take the Kobayashi Maru test until now. What do you think of my solution?O'hana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind or forgotten. My Story Recovered!
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Are you saying you think every marriage tainted by infidelity ought to end in divorce, in your opinion? I believe he is saying he is above such a marriage. Recovery is not something he would ever be interested in. And does not understand why anyone would lower themselves to the point of recovering an M that was tainted by an A Is that about right Z? I am with Harely on this one. I think getting out is best for me, too.
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No, just any that I am involved in.
An honest assessment. 
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