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Can anyone else please give me some advice here? Pls read my previous posts with subject "eight days since I've learned..."
My husband is into his 2nd or more affair. Can he really stop? Is there any point? He says he wants the marriage and still loves me.
25 yrs married
2 PA
involved in internet sex chat
snarled that it was because we didn'thave enough sex that he went elsewhere
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Fred in VA on the forum said he was worried it is 2 affairs, asking whether it's more. So what should I do since I know that to be true now.
Continue w/ exposure? avoidng LB at home? just try to live a normal life at home until we can move into a help stage? Start w/ Plan A also simultaneously?
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first stick to just one thread. I know it is frustrating that you feel noone is responding to you but it does take time.
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OK, I will go back to the first thread then. Thx.
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@waitingitout, please click the "Notify" button to the lower right and ask the moderators to fold your posts into one thread. It will be easier to follow your story's progress that way.
Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
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I guess I have to wonder why you feel he is going to change after his wayward actions that date 5+ years. I would encourage you to look at ALL of your options and consider why you would want to stay with a man with such a history. His actions are speaking loud and clear.
I am so sorry that you are enduring this, but MB is a wonderful place to be for support, advice, and an ear to listen.
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