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She hung herself Friday.
She leaves behind two sweet, beautiful boys who are friends of my boys.
I would appreciate my Christian friends praying for these boys that they will be protected from any further destruction and that the OW will be stripped from their lives. I pray that through her death her WH's fantasy fog is immediately and completely stripped away and that he will be able to pick up the pieces of what is left of his family and rebuild their lives.
She was beautiful. She was fun. And she loved her boys.
Happily married to HerPapaBear
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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I'm sorry to hear this. I will be praying for her family
Married 9 yrs.
DC 7 & 2
DH EA 4/08-01/10
Dday #1 05/08
False recovery b4 I knew about MB 07/08
Dday #2 01/10
NC 01/10
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Prayers goin up SMB.
So sorry anyone has to endure this pain.
All Blessings,
Jerry
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I will pray for her kids. Her H will not forget this one as it will hunt him for the rest of his life. But this iss small consolation when a life so precious is gone.
This shows how much A hurt us, how much destruction and damage they bring to a family and to the children.
Blessing
atena
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How awful and so tragic. Those poor boys. They are in my thoughts. I am sorry for the loss of your friend SMB. 
Me - BW
FWH - BB -(PA Jul 08 - Aug 08)
D-Day - 8 Aug 2008
Recovering nicely
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Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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Prayers to you and your friends flamily.
Don't pray for God to guide your footsteps unless you are willing to move your feet
Me BH 55, WW 40, M 12 yrs, 3 Boys 19, 10 & 8.
Separated Sept 08
DDay Dec 08
Plan A Mar 09
Plan B 16 Nov 09
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Just tragic. 
BS - me 56
XWH - 57
12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.
6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.
9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me
Divorced as of 12/09 after 36 years
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NO, NO, NO....  I know exactly how she felt and that was almost me....I wish she could have known that she could make it through this and be Okay....OMG this is making me cry, those poor, poor boys...What a tragedy. 
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. 
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smb i am so sorry for your friend and her boys.......
this is absolutely horrible.....
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My prayers are with you and your friends smb...I hope the WH wakes up and takes care of his poor little boys...
BW me-41 WH -39 DS - 9 married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered DDay aug 2007 found MB dec 2007 Moved out april 2008 still seeing OW Plan B Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy.
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I am so sorry. Her boys are in my prayers as are you and your family, my friend. I also pray that her WH will become aware of what he has done and take responsibility for destroying not only the life of a wonderful woman, but also the lives of his sons. I pray he will step up and be the father that has been missing in his boys' lives.
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"Do not go where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
"To Err is Human. To Arr is Pirate."
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I am so so sorry, smb. So sorry.
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This is tragic. I will pray for the boys.
I wish folks would come to some appreciation of just how damaging affairs are. Seems society just views them as a minor inconvenience.
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I'm so sorry. The WH and his OW should be tried for murder.
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smb,
Brought tears to my eyes.
Unless you have gone through this no one knows the pain, hurt, fear and isolation one feels.
I will pray for these boys that God gives them strength and that their father will forget his own selfish needs and take over as head of the household.
I thank God everyday that I found this board. Fellow MBers have helped me pull myself out of that black hole.
Makes me sad that this mother felt as if she had no recourse.
Tragic.
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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I had a case like this once. The WW flaunted her cheating and her husband hanged himself in their garage with a note pinned to his shirt. Seems the WW and her OM would ride their snowmobiles through ther guy's yard at night, mocking him.
After he killed himself, she came back and claimed work comp survivors'benefits alleging that his back injury had either cuased his suicide or caused their marriage to deteriorate to the point where she cheated. The guy's back had been injured , but he was back at work and doing fine until he discovered the infidelity.
I had to farm this case out, as i was busy and the attorney that handled it convinced the adjuster to pay thios woman 60,000. Nice, eh?
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Im sorry. God bless that family.
BH Age 45
WW Age 44
M 20 yrs
Son 14 yrs
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