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How do you place someone on Ignore?


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May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.

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Hi Fled,

Click on the user's name, Select View Profile, Then click on "Ignore this User"


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Thank you!!!


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May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays.

Recovering....it's a long road, even with a dedicated FWH
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NC = No Contact, right?


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Originally Posted by HEARTBROKEN77
NC = No Contact, right?
Yes!


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Okay, I'm gonna ask...
What did the gas-lighting mean?
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Gaslighting is a form of intimidation or psychological abuse in which false information is presented to the victim, making them doubt their own memory and perception.

Please Explain Gaslighting



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Wow, been there, done that. I didn't know there was a term for it... Thanks!


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Gosh, I sure am happy to read this list. I've just spent the past several hours reading Dr. Harley's articles here and it is a bit confusing. I'm going to order some more reading from the bookstore, but this guide to acronyms is most helpful.

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AO?? HIT??

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AO= Angry Outburst
HIT= A user name abbreviated (H----I-T-----)


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EP = Extraordinary Precautions


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What does "IC" mean?


So much peeling...where am I under all this peeling? Yoo-hoo, are you in there...nothing yet.

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IC = Individual counseling


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

Exposure 101


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Thanks!


So much peeling...where am I under all this peeling? Yoo-hoo, are you in there...nothing yet.

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What does NP'd or PD mean?

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Originally Posted by gailw
What does NP'd or PD mean?

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Donno.
Use it in context.

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As in...

you've been "Notable Posted" (NP'd) by the Police Department (PD).

Actually...I believe it's Narcissitic Personality Disorder (NPD) and just Personality Disorder (PD).

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What is UA as in UA immersion time

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UA = "Undivided Attention"

Read about it here.


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St. Francis of Assissi
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