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This is my guilty TV watching....and in the beginning of the show they have Chelsey and 3 other comedians talking about "current events." The other night (Monday maybe?) they were talking about the mistress who took out the billboard after her AP went back to his wife- she put a pix of her and the AP up there to basically taunt the BW.
Anyways, the comedian named Josh Wolf (I think) said something to the effect of..
"Why do we treat the mistress as the victim? The only victim here was the wife who was at home being faithful and taking care of the house and kids. That woman had no right to do that to her."
It was so refreshing! I almost cheered.
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This reminded me: two nights ago, FWH and I were watching a Seinfeld rerun. In that episode, George (single guy) finds out that a married woman wants to have an A with him. George says "An affair! How...grown-up!" (cringe) Then he follows it up with the fact that only a low-life, scum of the earth would have an A with a MW. I almost applauded!  End of story: George has a ONS with MW, her H finds out and goes after George, planning to "sew his a-- to his face". My eyeballs are still strained from lookways sideways at FWH to make sure he was watching every minute, LOL.
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My feelings exactly when I saw that billboard article. What right did OW have to feel scorned?
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They don't have any right. But I can tell you it happens. There is a letter on hear that I have read a few times about "You're the One". In my sitch, the OW appalling thought that much was owed to her for all the YEARS that she gave him. She knew she wasn't the wife, but she LOVED him that much.  She couldn't believe that after all this time she was owed more, not just a NC letter telling him she was a cruel injustice to the wife. She needed more closure and deserved more.. It's their entitlement that allows them to become an OW and it's that same entitlement that mistakenly allows them to believe they have a right to anything. Because they think they ARE THE ONE...
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 Josh Wolf! HTH, Chelsea is one of my guilty pleasures too!  Mrs. W
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Anyways, the comedian named Josh Wolf (I think) said something to the effect of..
"Why do we treat the mistress as the victim? The only victim here was the wife who was at home being faithful and taking care of the house and kids. That woman had no right to do that to her."
It was so refreshing! I almost cheered. Wow, this guy is SMART! We love to watch comedians, and we'll be looking out for this guy!!
Me,BW - 42; FWH-46 4 kids D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006 D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR) Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007 In Recovery and things are improving every day. MB rocks.
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