He told me (texted) today that he is 100% removed from me and he blames me for the deterioration of his relationship with our kids, our financial issues (that there's not enough $ for him to get an apartment) and for him being homeless (he's the one who moved out). He asked me if I would sign, and I said no. He said I have screwed him over 4 times and he is done. He's moved on.

I try to ignore, it just makes him text me and call me more and I don't know how to ignore that and it's worse when he is in front of me. I feel like I'm failing on all fronts. I know our marriage can succeed, but he doesn't believe it.

Staying strong is hard. He's a monster and I don't know how to combat that. I ignore, but am not mean, and yet I still get attacked and blamed for that which I don't do.

This is crazy...

Last edited by bri120; 02/01/10 07:23 PM.
BW:26 Me
WH:25

Married 6 years
Together 8 years
3 children

OW:33
OW:21

Plan B: 1-28-10

DDay- Discovered cell phone records starting 12-14-09 *found 12-30-09*

WH moved out 12-30-09

Recovery: 2-9-10