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I'll miss you L4, especially your honesty and eloquence. I wish you only the best.
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L4, You will be missed. 
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Who is going to play bump the threads with me now  I will miss you lots L4, I get alot of insight out of your thread and posts. You come before MB tho. Don't be a stranger now, ya hear? 
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I'm just grateful I'll see you on the other side...
Real life that is.
You are an inspiration to me and I'm so grateful to have been a part of this journey with you.
I love you and please come back and post every so often to let us know you are alive.
You are such a blessing. And I thank G-d for you.. Nice Ozzy Osborn reference, Queenie.
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BS 52, FWH 53, Married 1-1-84
D-day 5-14-07, WH moved in with OW
Plan A 9 months, DARK Plan B 3-17-08 until 3-2-09
WH and OW broke up 1-09
Started over 7-09
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May God Bless you and your H.
Recovery began 10/07;
Meeting my wife's EN's is my "thank you" that refuses to be silenced.
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L4:
Good luck to you and your family.
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Go in peace, L4! May love and reconciliation meet your family.
Stop back in here when you need a chat. We'll keep your seat warm.
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His PA 2003-2006
2 kids.
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Fair winds and following seas - the best of the best my friend.
I guess thats kinda of "Do or Do Not - there is no try..." you get to a point where the MB forum keeps you from moving forward...because part of you is staying in the past?
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L4,
I understand completely. I too took a break from MB for a good 6 months. Like SisterReed said, sometimes its hard to move forward when the raw pain on this board day in and day out holds you in the past.
I'll keep an eye out for updates from you. And you have my personal email-- feel free to use whenever you'd like.
I 100% understand.
Best of luck.
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Hello Looking4, You have grown so much... and I am so proud of you... You may not realize how much of an inspiration for so many new WW's that have come here and heard so many say if you want to see a FWW that UNDERSTANDS what is necessary just look at L4's story... Mrs.Flint does not think you should leave... I also do not want you to leave. But I also understand WHY you are taking this time away... And I agree with you on the REASON to... It is not possible for you to complete your recovery until you are not taking one step forward and two steps back every time there is a crisis either on your thread or someone elses... Go get healthy... Check back with your progress when you can... Remember that friends don't say Goodbye... They Say See You Later. You are loved... God bless. Jim & Mrs.Flint
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It is not possible for you to complete you recovery until you are not taking one step forward and two steps back every time there is a crisis either on your thread or someone elses...
Go get healthy...
Check back with your progress when you can...
Remember that friends don't say Goodbye...
They Say See You Later. Love. it. And so true. E.
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Praying for God's will in your life and marriage...
Not much else to say.
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Hi L4- I think you are doing the best thing for you and WH. Please know that I will continue to be praying for you and I will let you know anytime the cross on the hill is lit up. Call me when you are back in the valley. We'll walk along the river and have coffee.  Love ya'-JT
johnstwin-
"I may not know what the future holds, but I know who holds my future." -Martin Luther
Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!
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A-hem JT, her H is not a wayward
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L4, I understand you wanting time away from the boards. You will be thought about a lot while you are away! Lil, I think JT meant 'Wild Hunk' ....... 
M'd 22 years
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B_R - As SC suggested, I do blame you. Of course in a loving way.   The road of R (marital and personal) is long and bumpy. Good luck to you.
BW - me
exWH - serial cheater
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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.
We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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bumping, just because almost every time I look at who's online I see someone is looking at this thread Might make it easier to find 
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what a nosy parker you are to be looking at who's on line!
M'd 22 years
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Absolutely I have nothing better to do than to see what everyone else is reading
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