I suspect my husband is having an affair with a former coworker. I'm in the snooping stage. I have figured out my husband BB password and looked through his work email. I don't know the blackberry very well where else would things be stored. I have read about pin to pin messages. Where would i find those? Or any other apps I should look for.

Thanks!

If you can get a hold of his phone you can register it on line which will give you access to his online texting but it usually sends a temporary pin directly to the phone so you need to be in possession of it.

Good luck

my3sons52, the best thing you can do is purchase and install Flexispy. This will do all the snooping for you and you won't risk getting caught! It will tell you everything, and depending on which version you get, can do real-time, GPS tracking, and more!

It would be hard to spend $250 dollars on flexispy without ALOT of explaining. Hope great idea. It doesn't have phone capabilities would it still work? Where would I register it?

PIN messages are similar to SMS but go as data through the BB service. Every BB has a unique number (not the phone number) that you use to send PINs. There's also the BB Messenger that can work with PINs. PIN Messages normally go to the regular mailbox. He could be deleting the messages. By default, PIN messages are colored as red in the inbox list while SMS and emails are black.

The other way to intercept emails, SMS, PINS and chats from a BB is in the BlackBerry Enterprise Server (BES). This is how typically work BBs are managed via a central server. You'd need the help from the IT people that manages your H's BB which is very unlikely.

If the BB email is not connected to a BES then the emails go through BIS (BlackBerry Internet Service). This is more common in personal BBs than in work BBs. If you know the BIS password (or can get a reset by calling technical support of the cell phone carrier) then you log into a page a can configure it to send blind copies of emails (not SMS or PINS). If you go to the BB web site, it has links to the BIS pages of the different cell phone provider companies.

Most cell phone companies also have semi-real time phone call logs web pages. If your husband has not registered to that services you could call technical support and do it for him. You might need a copy of the bill or the account number. Just beware that they usually send a confirmation SMS anywhere from a few minutes to a few hours afterwards so you may want to do that at night when he's sleeping.

Flexispy works via the data connection of the BB. The BB should have an unlimited data plan otherwise you can get caught from the charges. You install it in the BB by downloading the software right from the phone. They send you an activation key when you buy it and they give you access to their service for a year.

Flexispy works by sends call logs, copies of messages to a web site that you log into to review phone usage. With some BBs and cell carriers you could even record calls, call the BB and have it silently turn into speaker phone so you can hear the conversations, record location via GPS or cell. I agree that flexispy is your best bet if you can afford it. Well worth it.

--ElCamino72

Great info. Thanks ElCamino72, good to know where the pin messages would be. It is only a data plan without phone calling abilities. I found some really incriminating voice text in the media folder. I wasn't sure if there was anywhere else to look. I'm just trying to get a real picture before I confront and everything is locked down. it sucks!